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Kickstart Her sexual desire drive problem - Posted by: Man

Im 34, turned on and very excited all the time for bedroom pleasure. My girlfriend's sexual desire passion for emotional intimacy cannot keep up with my performance abilities and my girlfriend wont take anything to kickstart her sensual activaty to feel sexy, aroused and get more sexual desire and satisfying passion response when making love for sexual pleasure. Is there something for her towards the opposite of viagra for me???

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Turned on horny passion - Reply by: jocko
Maybe self-stimulation 3 times a day will cut down on your turned on horny passion for sexual intimacy.
Ask her doctor about the new female Viagra she could take.

Tips and Advice - Posted by rainbow:
Good for you. wish my husband was. til then, i have to be patient. maybe she is feeling like a hunk of meat?

Have you ever used a bible concordance and looked up all the things God says about the emotional intimacy of the marriage relationship and the many roles of a husband--if you are falling short in any of these areas, you may be shutting her down emotionally. Or perhaps she was abused. i can tell you how to get some incredible counseling for both of you that really works if you are interested.

The thing i'm learning about my husband is that the more disappointed i am, the more he feels i am complaining and the less giving he is--he is just so insecure i know God is watching, and the truth is, i just want him anyway, so i just have to wait and pray that he will decide he wants help.

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One little tip you might try in the meantime is to massage her all over with some lotion and very gently massage her genitals...always a tickling motion from front to back--like stroking a cat--you can't rub the opposite way. the lighter the touch, the better. She may need a herbal aphrodisiac then, i just read about a creme that contains menthol and something else that you can buy that probably feels kind of like a sports creme--but not so harsh--apparently it really makes women tingle down there and helps them have orgasms easier.

I think it is called body cream and you can probably get it online or get something similar at a health store . you wouldn't even have to tell her what it is...take the pressure off and massage her allover and then slip a little on your finger and tickle her vagina and clitoris ever so lightly. watch her facial expressions-gaze into her eyes with love-gently lick her nipples-don't bite-not yet-then run your tongue along her inner thigh--no-contain yourself-not up to her vagina yet? does she like oral sex? if so, tease forplay her with it, but don't do it.

Stop and massage her feet for awhile. even if she falls asleep the first few times because you are going so slow, then thats okay, the point is to get her wanting YOU so much that she can't bear not to have you inside her.

I know that feeling well--believe me--once you get her feeling sexy intimate passion wanting you that much on a regular basis, your problems will begin to subside and you can get her to do anything you want. If it doesn't work, though, don't blame her! (or me, smile) Just get some help from God and from a medical doctor!

Sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy - Reply by: bamabelle1
Are you confusing sexual intimacy with emotional intimacy? Women need the emotional stuff to feel the sexual stuff. We need romance to feel passion. And if your wife works, plus takes care of the house and kids by herself, she is probably waaay too tired to feel like doing anything except sleeping in the bedroom.

Try treating her the way you did when you were first trying to get into her panties...as if she is the only woman in the world and you would pull the moon from the sky and serve it to her on a platter, just to see her smile. Make her the center of your world again.

Arrange a romantic weekend away from home (even if you have to 'kidnap' her by telling her that you are just going out to eat, then have a bag packed and hidden in the trunk, and take her to a restaurant in a hotel...where you have reservations for the honeymoon suite). Meanwhile, have a cleaning service (or a really good friend) come in and clean the home while you are gone. Not only will she be feeling all warm and fuzzy from the romantic weekend, but when she comes home and doesn't have a ton of housework facing her, she will feel like dancing on clouds with you again.

Once you have gotten her this far, you will need to keep it up if you want to keep her feeling frisky.... otherwise you risk having the whole thing blow up in your face, with her feeling used. Remember, the more sexual intimacy you get, the more you want, so if you are willing to spend a little time making her feel sexy and special, her libido should catch up to yours.... provided you don't forget to keep the emotional intimacy primary and the sexual intimacy secondary.

Relationships, especially marriage, require an effort to keep them fresh and exciting. And as we mature, sometimes it gets harder to create the intimate excitement...especially at certain stages where hormones start doing weird things. But, if you keep the emotional intimacy alive and the lines of communication open, the world is your oyster, and she is your pearl.

Professional counseling Reply by: bob
I don't think you have the problem. You and your wife need professional counseling . You might find out more about your wife then you though you knew.

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Satisfying sexual response Reply by: taonyaoselidI know that feeling well--believe me--once you get her to a satisfying sexual response and to wanting you so much on a regular basis, your problems will begin to subside and you can get her to do anything you want. If it doesn't work, though, don't blame her! (or me, smile) Just get some help from God and from a doctor!

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