I am a virgin with jitters and I have been thinking about losen it...so does sex hurt the first time for women virgins when making love? 
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Reply by: RichT
1. Not adequate natural lubrication because the woman is not yet sexually aroused enough and the vaginal entrance is not lubricated enough for penetration, or after an extended period of intercourse, the natural lubrication may be "used up" causing vaginal dryness. In either case a lubricant can greatly help to eliminate/reduce friction/pain. My wife and I especially like Wet Platinum because it is very slippery and stays slippery for a very long time. Many other lubricants will be slippery for a few minutes and then become sticky which is hardly what you want when making love.
2. A woman who has not had intercourse before and still has her intact hymen (The hymen vaginal-flap is a thin skin that stretches across the opening of the vagina) will many times experience pain the first few times she has intercourse.
Again, a lubricant can help to some extent during love making to help the hymen to stretch open. In this case the fellow should be very understanding.
3. If a fellow is fairly large (over 7" in length and fairly large in circumference, and the female partner has an average or smaller vagina, then the lady will most likely feel pain. The fellow must learn to go slow, use a lubricant, and only be active as feels comfortable for the lady.
4. An abnormality (growth, cyst, infection) in a woman's vagina may also cause her pain during intercourse.
Stretching the hymen open for several weeks before starting intercourse by putting a clean finger into the vagina and gently pushing it from side to side will help prepare it for intercourse. Having anxiety about sex may also make sex more painful and may be your body's way of telling you "I'm not ready" or "I don't want to have sex with this person."
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Reply by: Amy
It hurts a little for the first few times but when your in love the pleasure takes over. I found it to be painful after intercource. Also, I was divorced and alone for 8 years when i first started going out with my recent husband it was just like the first time again untill i got used to it. I guess the saying, "If you don't use it you loose it." is partially true.
Reply by: barbara My first Time didn't hurt, I hurt after that... LOL
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