The clitoris is small and hidden under a kind of hood. It is much like the tip of a penis in that it is very sensitive and connected to a shaft, which cannot be seen on the outside. As the clitoris is stimulated, muscles contract and spasm and you eventually experience orgasm.
Different women masturbate in different ways. Some women find one way that works and sticks with it. Others like to experiment with several different techniques. Try some of the following. Lie down, relax, think sexy thoughts and have fun!
The Two-Finger Approach Begin rubbing your clitoris with your fingers (most women prefer their index and middle fingers on one hand). You can rub the hood over the clitoris or lift the hood and rub the clitoris directly.
You may find it irritating or painful to directly stimulate the clitoris -- it just depends on your level of sensitivity. Experiment with different strokes, pressure and speed to find out what feels best.
You are on your way to an orgasm. You may want to stimulate yourself further by massaging your breasts or playing with your nipples.
Vibrators
Vibrators
are a popular way to achieve an intense orgasm. Depending on how sensitive you are, you may want to position the vibrator above your clitoris, over the hood, and not directly on the clitoris.
These devices can give off some pretty strong vibrations, so you should be able to have a very pleasurable orgasm with indirect stimulation.
Squeeze Play This is an intriguing technique because it can really be done anywhere, even while you're fully clothed! Simply squeeze your thigh muscles together and then release, repeating continuously until you achieve orgasm. It may help to cross your legs at the knees for more control. If you do this in public, just make sure you don't scream out in ecstasy!
In the ShowerIf lying down, you will probably need to separate and lift your legs to get the right position. Let the water flow on your clitoris as you run your hands over your wet body. You'll get there in no time!
These are just a few of the many possible techniques you can use to achieve the ultimate orgasm.
Of course, the best orgasms are those that you have with your partner. If you think your mate would be upset or uncomfortable with your masturbation, do it privately. Your partner will only reap the benefits of your new skills the next time you're together!
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