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Posted by Josh:
In Reply to: Masturbation and Impotence
posted by Karl:
I had the same problem the first few tries at sex. I couldn't get hard because I was so nervous.
I doubt that the way you masturbate would cause you not to get a hard on as you said you can get one.
You may have sexual performance anxiety
. A few tips on how to fet over it are on this site under the impotence
section.
What worked for me(and my girlfriend) was taking it slow and being really sensual. We started with clothes on then we took our clothes off. I then fingered her and that made me real hard. She then did oral on me and then I wasn't half as nervous as before and was able to keep it up and lose my virginity.
So try that just take it slow don't be all let's have sex that's how you get nervous as you are just thinking of the act and not the feeling that you are getting.