Sexual Performance Anxiety
"Trouble keeping a penis erection with her!"

Performance anxiety dude Erection doesnt work Posted by: billy :
I dated a girl for a long time and just recently broke it off. Now i'm seeing another girl but i'm having trouble keeping a penis erection with her. The first girl i dated could get me aroused with a kiss. The feelings are strong with this new girl but sometimes the penis erection works and sometimes it doesnt. What's wrong with me i'm only 20 years old I shouldnt have this sexual performance problem.

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Performance Anxiety problems guy Performance Anxiety problems Reply: RTB
I had the same erectile dysfunction problem. I just coun't keep a penile erection too stay hard enough for sexual intercourse. And if I could get a hard erection I would quickly lose it during intercourse.

After breaking off a previous relationship, it took three months before my new girlfriend and I were able to have sexual intercourse. And it happen on her birthday. She said that was the best bithday present she ever had. Because she had waited and wanted it for so long.

That was 8 years ago. And we now have a beautiful daughter. I am really thankfull to have such a patience women. I think it was really do to some kind of Performance Anxiety problems for me. Because she is so beautiful and desiring I wanted her to orgasms. I just wanted to get the orgasm and ejaculation part and not enjoy all the forplay that is sometimes needed in a new relation. It's a mental thing, you need to focus on the sensory aspects of love making rather then the end results of orgasm and ejaculation .

We didn't have Viagra Cialis and Levitra erectile dysfunction drug treatment medication back then. Click to locate a doctor near you in the USA , to see if you made need Viagra tablets, cialis pills, Levitra medicine , for your penile erectile function problem. And, a sexual therapist would be benificial for both of you. With this help you shouldn't have to wait long for a loving and lasting relationship.

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Penis will go down soft, limp and hanging Posted by: mr :
I kind of have the same problem. I will start to play and the intercourse, and then right in the middle of everything my penis will go down soft, limp and hanging, not being able to keep it hard. My brain wants to continue, i am not tired, maybe a little bit, but i feel good. I am not sure why does that happen. I do smoke, i rearly drink, i do not exercise. It doesn't happen all the times maybe once in ten times. Also when i am near to an end it goes down most of the time it's not hard. Can someone please reply to me to the e-mail above if you have any suggestions.

Exercise, diet and fitness Reply by: Frank
Exercise and fitness is the key. And healthy diet (no junk foods), no smoking and alcohol. You have to keep your mind alert and focused. Don't lose that focus. Don't think about the climax, think about the sensation your having.

Smoke and drugs Posted by: tab :
My boyfriend exercise and is a health fitness freak. He also smoke and dose some drugs. He has a promblem keeping it up. What do you think it can be. Can you please him.
thanks,

Focus or lose it Reply by eric
Well, the drugs will do the trick. Most drugs alter the mind or other parts of the body and you tend to lose focus on what your doing. For a man to have a erection he has to focus on what he is doing or else he loses it.

Want Rock hard on Posted by: Richard
I don't get a rock on that much anymore, I'm 54 and I would like to no if there is anything I can do or buy to give it that great hard one, I do drink and smoke at my age. I keep hearing things about getting the blood flow. please try and help........

Viagra, Cialis or Levitra Reply by: nick
Like you said, you got to get that blood to flow. Have you tried Viagra, Cialis or Levitra erection Dysfunction prescription drug? That will get the blood to flow to get that great hard one. Of course drinking at your age will not help. Alcohol is a depressant so that's not going to help at all. or, try OTC sexual performance alternatives! .

Drinking also suppresses your testosterone levels even in social drinkers by suppressing the secretory activity of the Leydig cells . Try a testosterone levels booster .

Stress can also also be a erection buster.

As you get older, your problem with maintaining penile erections will happen more often. It is a sign that your drinking days are coming to end, in respect to sexual activity (maintaining penile erections).

Condoms makes it go down Posted by: tom
well this is so pride breaking im 19 and im with my new gf she gets me exicted but like i get exicted to easy even if i kiss her i do but right when it gets down to the sex part i want to so badly we have had sex before but it wasnt what i wanted i could have been alot better if i was at my peak but most of the time we forplay alot i mean alot .

when i start its at its peak then when im in for first few minutes it goes down for some reason condoms make it go down faster i dont know why anything i can eat or do i also smoke and i dont really work out but i use to work out and take supliments when i played football and drink alot of energy drinks does that have anything to do with it?im 19 i dont wanna be asking for viagra hahaha

Need sensual feelings Reply by: gabe
For some people too much forplay can effect the erection process. Time you get it in her you get bored. You are mentally drained. Of course smoking doesn't help either. But I think the main reason is the condem is taking away the sensual feelings you need to keep a erection. So, it's more important to keep the comdom on your penis and ask for the Viagra .

Let's discuss it Posted by: Sweseewrita - email: [email protected]
In my opinion you are wrong. Let's discuss it.

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