He has never had an orgasm, Climax and no Ejaculation cum with me when making love- Posted by: Jane I have a serious problem I don't know what to do. My husband and I have been together for almost five years.
We were
abstinate until marriage, and I worry that this may have put too much pressure on us early in the marriage.
Once we were
married and it was "okay" to have sex, my husband and I didn't know what to do. We didn't even consummate the marriage
until two weeks after our wedding. Since then things haven't gotten much better. We have been married nearly five years,
and . . . ever.
He tells me that he can have an orgasm "sometimes" when hemasturbatesalone. I have brought up the idea of him trying to masturbate to climax with me in the room, or even with me helping him, but he
always puts me off. I offer him oral all the time which he consistantly turns down. I am dying to do this for him, but he
always rejects me. I don't know if he finds the idea distasteful or what is wrong.
I am so attracted to him, but I feel
like I have to beg him to have sex with me. I have no concerns that he is being unfaithful, but I dont think he understands
how much it hurts me that he has shut me out of this vital part of our marriage.
Over the past five years we have managed
to have sex ~ once a month, and every time its just because it's in his words "the right thing to do" like an unpleasant
obligation akin to doing the taxes, or polishing the silver.
I am at my witts end. I don't want to leave
him, but I don't want to go the rest of my life without knowing what it is like to be really desired and pursued. I wan't
to know what it's like to really be with my husband. I want us to eventualy be able to have children together - without
having to involve test tubes or turkey basters. If anyone has any suggestions that could help I would really
appreciate it.
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Check Testosterone level- Reply by:charly Well, if he can orgasm during masturbation then his love making physical reproductive system is working ok.
It might be a good idea to have histestosteronelevel checked out byIn-Home Testing. Low levels means it will affect hisLibdo(sexual desire).Testosterone gelis a treatment for that.
He seems like he may be a very shy and sensitive person in bed.
Maybe he is sensitive to his penis size or he is afraid how well he will be able to sexually perform when making love.
The inability to reachorgasmsIt could be any number of things.
It's best you find out by asking sensitive questions for a better and more meaningful relationship.
You have to put it in a way that will not offend his sensitivity. Maybe he is masturbating too much.
Try experimenting with new sensations.Foreplaystimulation for love making is a important aspect to consider for
preparation to reach that pinnacle for him to achieve climatic orgasms. Foreplay lowers inhibitions and increases the emotional comfort.
This can be done at first in a subtle way through out the day and getting more intense in bed.
It's best for you to get a love making specialist (not a marriage specialist).
Find asexual therapist near
youfor professional help. They have many more things to help you and that would be beneficial for making love.
Many painkillers compete with testosterone for the testosterone receptors on a man's
tissues and thereby cause a decline in sexual responsiveness; and drugs ...
Has he had his androgen testosterone level checked recently? And if so was the results in the normal range?
A low testosterone level will cause a decrease inlibido
Not Interested for Orgasms - Posted by: Missy -My husband not interested and will not touch me. His testosterone levels are normal. He can get a penile hard on and he says he is not cheating.
He says he is just tired but finds energy to do all his hobbies...
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He has never had an orgasm, Climax and no Ejaculation cum with me when making love
- Posted by: Jane
Check Testosterone level
- Reply by: charly
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