Unable to Last Relationship-Posted by Kyle: All my male life I have been unable to last with a woman after the third or fourth time we have intimate love.
In order to achieve sexual satisfaction I have to be with a new partner.
I think it's the thrill of the pursuit that turns me on. Once a woman consents to having sensual love with me
I soon lose sexual interest drive
and can no longer last and sometimes can't even get hard erection an get ready to perform.
I'd like to have a long term relationship but not too many women would go for a sexless marriage. Any advice on what I should do?
Sexual control adviceReply by MissHer: It's all about sexual control. I try to build up a strong urg to have sex.
The longer length of time between love making sessions builds up a strongersexual desirefor making love. Whenever you meet someone,
you want to have make love often untill the sexual desire wears off.
In my case, I think my first 2-marriages didn't last because of the same sexual abilities problems you have. Well, now my wife lives in one residence and
I live in another ( the same as Hugh Hefter is doing). We try to wait as long as possible to see each other.
And, don't pleasure myself at all. I really miss her more and cannot wait to see her, then it's great. So far it's lasted 7 years.
I have low self esteem and always afraid to perform because I got nervous and didn't know if I would be able to get it up
for sexual performance when I needed to.
Sometimes I would and sometimes it wouldn't be ready to perform.
But, now I don't worry about my sexual abilities anymore because, I have self confidence that it will work evertime. And, It does.
You could end that terrible feeling and not be nervous anymore.
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