Posted by RichT :
In Reply to: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no sensations - must speak to Rich T posted by RichT:
Jon,
Perhaps you could tell me what "sexual sensations" you think you are not feeling. What is it you think you should be feeling?
For me at least, when I masturbate there is this feeling of "tightness" in my erect penis and a feeling of "tension" in my body. As i continue to masturbate and am getting very close to ejaculating the movement of my hand/fingers on my penis feels very good and exciting. And then at the point of "no return" I ejaculate. Okay, lets put that into perspective as to how I feel when my wife is stimulating my penis with your fingers and sometimes with your tongue/mouth. There is absolutely no comparison. I don't know what it is, but when she stimulates me it feels so incredibly good, much much better than when I stimulate myself. Is it her touch, her body, not knowing what she will do next? Probably all of those and more. What she gives me are incredible "sexual sensations", and what I do "just feels good" and gets me to a point of ejaculation and sexual release.
Oh yes, another question - When you masturbate, do you notice a very small amount of viscous liquid coming out of the tip of your penis. If you do, that is excellent, and if you have felt it, it most likely was slippery.
Enough questions. My apology for so many questions, but it is just that I am trying to understand how your body responds to stimulation.
Just one thought - The next time you masturbate, position your hand so that the tip of your penis will touch the palm of your hand. Then put each of your fingers on your shaft and slowly begin to move back and forth. As you push towards your body, the tip of your penis should touch the palm of your hand. Let me know how that feels.