I thoroughly enjoy sex and love my current g/f greatly, but I lose my erectile function and can’t seem to cum during intercourse. I was able to cum with my past g/f although there were times when I was not able to.
I have never been able to cum from a handjob or a blowjob from her, but I masturbate on a regular basis and cum. My g/f really wants me to be able to cum inside her (using protection, of course), and I want to please her.
Can someone (RichT) please help me? Do I need to take supplements? Is it just stress or a psychological thing? Also, I’ve noticed that circumcision apparently is an important factor. I am circumcised, but why does that matter?
Sounds like you have sexual performance anxiety disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble “getting it up”) can happen whereby you do get a penile erection, and as you’re about to have sex, you your erection goes down, or it can be when you’re actually in the course of having sexual intercourse, you lose the penis erection, or you don’t get erectile function at all. So it can happen in any of those kind of ways.
Usually what happens when guys erectile dysfunction occurs is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is cumming or pleasing the partner with an orgasm, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that they’re having as opposed to the final goal — more focusing on the process rather than the product.
There are many male sexual dysfunction treatments options and sexual health products that are available online. The treatment option you choose should be specific and responsive to your needs and expectations as well as your partners. Or, you can see a doctor to what options are best for you.
