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Posted by RichT :
In Reply to: Re: Re: Maintaining an erection posted by Worried lad:
Hello Matt,
I was glad to read in your second post that you do stimulate your partner's clitoris until she has an orgasm. To me it is most important that the woman have sexual release as well as the man. And for most women they need to have their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm. Intercourse just doesn't do it for most of the ladies.
There is a basic rule in lovin' - If there is something you do not feel comfortable doing, then don't, and your partner should respect your wishes. So, with the oral, tell her how you feel, that it isn't anything personal, you just don't feel comfortable orally stimulating her at this point in time. Even if there is not oral stimulation by you or her, I do believe that person hygeine is important and it is always a good idea to "freshen up" (wash) before you really get into your lovin'.
Matt, I hope my earlier response to you regarding how wonderfully wet your partner becomes during stimulation has helped both of you. In my view you are a lucky guy and so is she in having all that wonderful natural lubricant.
Please do let my know how things go for the two of you. I wish you the best.