"He Has No Sexual Desire Drive To Touch Me!"

Inhibited Hypoactive Sexual Desire Inhibited (Hypoactive) Sexual Desire - Posted by Missy :
After the testosterone levels have been checked fine and all the crying on my part, he still has no intimate sexual performance desire drive to touch me or for intercourse. It is making me physically sick as well as emotionally sick. I seek for my purpose with my husband if I can not turn him on sexually. I get offers all the time from men for sex so I can't be repulsive, can I?

I get mad at myself for putting on a sexy night gown thinking that stupid me could turn him on. I think that I must be a stupid looking cow to him, even though I am not over weight. Is there anyone out there that knows what I feel like because right now I feel so alone in the world and completely mis understood. Is his inhibited hypoactive sexual drive lacking guys Libido or stress for medical concerns to see a doctor?

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Your's was such a very sad post. I cannot even imagine the mental, emotional, stress and sexual frustration you are going through. Yes, I'm sure you do feel inadequate, cold, negleted and misunderstood.
Thank you for stating that he had his testosterone level checked and that it is okay. Now you know that at least is not the problem. The problem may be Inhibited (Hypoactive) Sexual Desire .

Is your husband under a lot of STRESS be it mental or physical? Stress can be a huge killer of libido (desire for sex).
Missy, from what you have written in your post, I don't believe you are the cause for why he is so unattentive to you.If you would be so kind as to answer the question I have asked, then I'll be able to better give you some additional thoughts.
Take care.

Reply by Bill:
If you truly love him, try to get him to a counselor. I had a very high drive when I was younger and after I married, it almost quit. I was working long, hard hours and under a lot of self-impossed stress to be a good provider. I wish that my ex had only talked with me and stood by me. Instead, she felt I was not attracted to her and nothing could've been further from the truth. I did not even know what was going on until 2 years later when I was diagnosed with performance anxiety disorder and chronic depression .

Perhaps if we had seeked help earlier, we would still be together. Not saying that is why we divorced, but it was the beginning of many other problems. Be honest, understanding, supportive for someone who is feeling inadequate, cold and negleted, and let him know you love him. If you can get him to realize what is causing his low libido (which he may not even know it's abnormal) that will be another confirmation of your commitement to the relationship. Sounds like he's depressed and maybe a bit embarassed. Be gentle. Has he tried Viagra ? Sometimes that helps with self-confidence.

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