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On my 18th birthday, someone had the idea to play spin the bottle. I was the only guy there, with the exception of a friend and ex-short-time-boyfriend of my girlfriend's. So we played, even though I really didn't want to. In total, there were 5 girls and 2 boys in the group. I should have felt lucky. Maybe I did. Until the game progressed, and my girlfriend started biting, making out with, and doing erotic things to her ex-boyfriend. Now mind you, I had kissed her best friend, but not to this caliber.

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My girlfriend gave me a look that could have killed a lesser man. But when we realized what was going on, and the bottle landed on my girlfriend the next time, I tackled her and she loved it. She tackled me back, too. But when I had kissed her friend all those times and all were known to like me, except her sister (whom I had suspicions about but she didn't even kiss back), I liked it at the time. The friend loved it, and my girlfriend bragged about me being a good kisser. But that night was the end of it. Before, she was talking to her ex-boyfriend about covering him in chocolate and licking it off, and doing a bunch of nasty stuff and it was my birthday.

I sat in the laundry room, depressed. She said she was speaking for her friend that liked him, like she was the friend but that's just not something to say, especially on your boyfriend birthday, and at the party. But after that, she didn't fool around with her friend anymore, and neither did I. She promised me that she would stop, and I was happy. There was one incident where her friend kissed her (I heard it) and she said she kissed her for a minute before feeling like it was wrong, then she backed off and distracted her friend with her breasts before turning her over to her other friend, who were all sleeping together and still do, sometimes.

I don't know what to do. I have tried everything, it seems, but its like the thought won't go away, and its not even a real thought. Her sister has given me some signs of liking me, and I can't help but notice and be attracted. She does weird stuff flirty stuff like backing into me in the hall when we walk down it, sticking her butt out. She kicks me in the butt constantly, gives me the look sometimes and sometimes I can feel that when we are sitting or standing close to each other, she means to be so close and tries to get closer.

Once, she was kneeling on the floor facing me and my girlfriend (who were sitting together on the couch). There was an entertainment center behind her, with all sorts of reflective surfaces. She pulled the back of her pants down, not affecting the front, and scratched at something for a second which I caught in the reflection and then she glanced quickly at me, kind of telling me that she meant for me to see.

Just the other day I was helping her with her myspace, and she started kicking me in the butt, and I kneed her in hers. It was all in fun, but it felt like more. Then, she tried to get all up in my face which I was scratching and she ran into my hand. As she did this, I felt her lips sort of kiss it. I just looked at her as she looked at me, and smiled. Then I was sitting at the computer later, and she came over and sat on my lap.

My hand was under her for a second, but I extracted it slowly and put it to the side of her, kind of on her leg. She got up a minute later. Stuff like this is just driving me crazy, because I never used to have real friend, and my mother never mothered me. She tried, but she never loved me like a mother should.

I never hug her, let alone kiss her, just because I never did. I wish I could and feel ok though, because I feel like I missed something. But I don't know if this is just like a friend thing, a sisterly love thing, or if she is interested in me because lately, I have been more and more obsessed and attracted to her and my girlfriend's friend the one I made out with. I'm not planning anything, and I don't want anything to happen, but I can't help but fantasize sometimes. I never want to be with anyone else but my girl, and I would never cheat on her.

I couldn't help but be attracted, and her best friend was doing the same (because she wanted to date me), but nothing bad ever happened. I won't do anything either, it just works its way in and gets to me (e.g. attracts me and distracts me from my girlfriend) when they do stuff they don't even know they're doing and probably can't control. p What can I do to stop it? For the record, I have trust issues, basically. Since those problems, I have felt less trust for her than anyone. Maybe because I feel like she is the only one in my life I love, and my mother instilled distrust on me, but how can I assure myself I can trust her, and she can trust me? After all that, it has been hard. We plan to marry one day, but we must get past that first.