Not been able to climax and ejaculate with women
- Posted by: Jar
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Retarded Inhibited, Dry-Orgasms, Anorgasmia, Anejaculation Information
- Reply by: James
(0) Retarded Ejaculation (RE)
Two other terms used instead of Retarded Ejaculation (RE) are more descriptive of the problem in it's more severe form....the form where a man cannot ejaculate with a partner
at all, not just during intercourse, but by any means at all other than self masturbation
.
The majority of men with this problem suffer from the more
severe form: Inhibited Ejaculation or Male Anorgasmia
( Dry Orgasms
).
Young guys who have the milder form where you CAN eventually ejaculate, may find themselves getting the more severe form in their late 20's early 30's and beyond as their hormonal levels begin to dip (this is natural) and they need stronger visual and physical stimulation to achieve climax.
Psychologically suseptible
Also, some men masturbate with a hard grip than cannot be duplicated by vaginal or oral sex with a partner.
If these men are psychologically suseptible to
RE or Inhibited Ejaculation (ie: verbally or physically abused as children, or come from a strict religious background,
are anxious, shy or sensitive and perhaps tend to suffer from sexual performance anxiety
)
the "numb penis" these men experience during sex
can be combined with with a psychological orgasmic block to create the conditions for this dry orgasm disorder.
RE and Inhibited Ejaculation Not organic problem
RE and Inhibited Ejaculation not caused by an organic
problem ( diabetes
, multiple sclerosis,
SSRI antidepressents etc) but rather by a psychological dysfunction that sets up a block at some stage in the
arousal and orgasmic stages of sex may be overcome by some method of distraction.
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Anorgasmia focused technique One man suffering from Anorgasmia and who had been trying unsuccessfully to concieve a child with his wife for 8 years managed to finally get her pregnant using this method. He reported: "my wife doesn't particularly like p*rnography but when our sex therapist suggested Xrated videos she agreed as a last resort. I found that during intercourse if I took my eyes off the screen and looked down at my wife,
I would lose the urge to ejaculate and begin to lose my erection. As long as I kept my eyes focused on the TV screen I was able to easily ejaculate inside her in a matter of two or three minutes.
We were both so amazed by this technique that my wife agreed to allow me to watch these videos every time she was in her fertile time of the month and we concieved our first child in the second month of trying. I had never been able to ejaculate before wit any woman or by any other method than masturbation while alone."
Distracted males In a commentary about this a sex therapist and psychologist said that it may not necesarily even have been the p*rnographic imagery that allowed this guy to finally enjoy successful intercourse with his wife. Rather, it was the fact that he was distracted by the images and was not paying too much attention to the sex act he was involved in and so the orgasmic block never appeared.
The medical doctor went on to say that perhaps p*rnography was not needed at all and as long as the man was distracted enough "he could very well have been watching the 6 o"clock news and still have ejaculated during intercourse with his wife"
Performance Anxiety
Reply by: Bob
It might be caused from Performance Anxiety
.
There is actually a multitude of different remedy treatments. One of the treatment cures for this that was developed some time ago by
Masters and Johnson is what is known as a sensate focus technique.
Go to a certified sex psychologist or psychiatrist, or a psychologist or psychiatrist who has had experience in this particular area,
to make sure that they're well-referred and that they're people who are qualified. Locate doctor near you
.
News article
Reply by: jim
Here's a related news article you might want to read: "When A Man Can't Climax!"
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