"When My Girlfriend Ask's Me To Make Love, I Can't!"
Male Performance Anxiety Symptoms, Causes, Treatments
Cannot perform to make intimate love - Posted by:just-a-bloke
hey all, im 18 year old virgin.
yea, ive been together with a girl for a few months now and when it comes time to she wanting to make love i cannot sexually perform
for intimate love making. When she first gets to my place it comes up easy but after a few hours off being together she ask's to make love , i just cant perform, a hour or so after she leaves i'm ready to perform love making easy, but i really wanna make love with this girl, any reason why I can't get it up and be ready for intimate activity, is something wrong with me any way i can fix it?, or u rekon i should just make love just as she gets over.
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Male sexual performance anxiety
Reply by: TomI think you may have a male sexual performance anxiety
problem.
The sexual performance anxiety is usually fear-based. It's the sense of fear of performing in a certain way where you're partner's going to be disappointed. She's seems to be running the show. Because of her display of self-confidence and mood control you will have to re-evaluate mental focus, you may be affected. You may think you will be unable to perform up to her expectations.
You have to be more confident in your self.
Just try to start the ball rolling just when she gets over, before she starts controlling the mood. I use Viagra
sometimes to help me with more confidence.
Relationship help, solutions, problems - Reply by:
relationshiphelpbylee
Did you ever think that maybe after spending a couple of hours with the girl that she has turned you off and
maybe she is not the girl for you?
If not there are products such as VigRx for Men
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Naturally Support Healthy Sexual Energy & Normal Male Erection.
Or maybe, like Tom said, it is fear based. In that case try an adult game like Monogamy a Hot Affair
With Your Partner which improves communication between couples and allows you to get to know each others likes and dislikes and also provides a good time.
Just saying for relationship help, there are all kinds of solutions. Have you told her about your problem? Be honest she may be able to help you out.
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