yeh the problem is though that when i do this i get erect but do not get pleasurable feelings, its just like rubbing my arm if u will. my problem is not that i dont like it or nething ive just never had sexual sensations like u should have when u have sex or masterbate. yes i have had wet dreams but only once ever can i remember other than this of feeling ne sort of pleasure down there, believe it or not that was on the ropes at school when i was bout 9 or 10. all these things are why i am very worried. thanks for your help and keep talking to me.