"Lack Of Penis Sexual Erogenous Arousal Feelings Sensations"
Lack of penis sensation feelings - Posted by jon: Regarding my lack of any sexual erogenous arousal feelings sensations in my penis, could u please keep in contact with me as i am keen to know what the problem is. please keep on checking the board as i will be checkin g every day for your replies on this matter. now i have told someone about this i am desperate to hear about what it could be and if it can be fixed. thanks a lot.
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Re: no sensations-RichT Good morning Jon, "could u reply and try to tell me what u think i am saying from your previous post" - That is a very good idea and that is what I will try to do amoung other things. You have been very open and willing to answer the questions I have raised and I much appreciate that.
Let me first go through and state the things that you have told me - 1. You have/had wet dreams - Very normal. 2. You do get an erection when youmasturbate- Normal and I might add important. 3. You get anerectionwhen you look at adult magazines - Normal. 4. You are notcircumcised- Excellent in my opinion because it helps to keep your frenulum very sensitive to stimulation. 5. You never have noticed anyprecumcoming from the tip of your penis during masturbation. Though the majority of men do have precum, from a study by Kinsey, he found that about 1/3 of males do not have any precum during excitation.
You said you had tried that things I suggested in one of my posts. However, would you please provide some additional information. 1. Lubricants - Do you use a lubricant when you masturbate, and if so, may I ask what you use? Again to meWet Platinumis the best. 2. Frenulum - Have you moved your fingers around this area?
Lubricants and frenulum - Without a lubricant I find that I have very little pleasant arousal sensations during masturbation. In fact it doesn't even feel good. This is especially true of the frenulum if not lubricanted. It almost is to the point of hurting and it does not feel good. When I apply Wet Platinum, it is a whole different story.
Just moving myforeskinback and forth by pushing and pulling on the shaft of my penis feels very good.
When I stimulalte my fenulum, it is very exciting and I get to the point where I don't want to stop stimulating it.
If I don't stop, then I willejaculatein a short time.
When you push the foreskin back torwards your body it whould feel very good, and better than when you pull it towards
the tip of your penis. At least that is how I respond.
A few questions - When you masturbate, for how long do you do it, how often, and are you by yourself,
so that you do not have to be concerned about others?
When you masturbate, do you feel the muscles in you butt tighten?
Your answers will help me better understand your problem of not having any "sexual erogenous feelings sensations".
Re: no sensations - must speak to Rich TRichT(13) Jon,
Yes, I'll keep checking this board. No Worries as the Aussies say.
In my previous post I asked if you have ever ejaculated. Maybe I missed your response, but I did not see it. It will help to know if you have ejaculated during masturbation.
Your last post provided most important information, that that is that you do not ejaculate during masturbation.
Now lets step back one more step - When you masturbate do you get an erection?
Not being able to ejaculate is called"inhibited ejaculation". You can find information about this by going to the search
engine "Google" and typing in "inhibited ejaculation".
Check the various web sites that provide information on this
subject.
You will note for the information that taking antidepressant medications can cause inhibited ejaculation, and can other
factors.
Please do respond regarding my question as well as your thoughts on the information on inhibitied ejaculation and whether
this may be your situation.
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Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenous sensations - must speak to Rich Tjon(10) yes i do get an erection when i try to masturbate, i dont take anti depressents. when i was about 11 i was diagnosed with rumatoid arthritis and was taking ibuprofen for that, i dont take it anymore though. i also had asthma and used to take inhalers for that but not anymore. i hope this will be a help to u and i will now get round to having a look at those sites you have just mentioned. thanks
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenous sensations - must speak to Rich Tjon(9) i have also just looked up inhibited or retarded ejaculation on google and although slightly relevent i found no article talking about somebody who dosnt get sexual sensations. they just said that some people were unable to ejaculate or it took them a very long time.
i did read someting about nerves and how they might not be working therefore i do not get pleasurable feelings. this is what i have always thought. please keep in contact and tell me what u r thinking on the matter, thanks
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenous sensations - must speak to Rich Tjon(7) i dont want to go and dee somebody about it. thats why i am hear. i know there is something wrong. i want to know how serious it could be and how common and what it is. i know i should see a doctor but i just cannot pluck up the courage. i have tried once but i got so nervous and embarrassed he ended up thinking that i just couldnt get an erection and when i got a girlfriend that would change. i am not going back tosee him. please giv me a few suggestions as to wat it is etc. thanks
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenous sensations - must speak to Rich TRichT(6) I fully understnad your reluctance in wanting to go back to your doctor. A few years ago I had an fungal infection on the head of my penis. I delayed seeing my doctor because it had to do with my penis. He talked to me in a very professional manner and esplained to me what I had and treated the infection. I am glad I did not wait any longer than I did.
Jon, a few posts back you stated that you do get an erection when you masturbate.
That is great! You also mentioned that you are not taking any medications. Excellent.
"i know there is something wrong---" - Well Jon, perhaps nothing is really wrong. Perhaps it is just a matter of learning more about your body and how it responds or doesn't respond when you stimulate your penis. I would first suggest that you use a lubricant to reduce the friction and increase the sensitivity. My wife and I especially like Wet Platinum because it stays slippery for a very long time. Many other lubricants get sticky after a few minutes.
You can either masturbate laying down, or standding up. Move your hand slowly and gently back and forth on the shaft of your penis. Move your fingers around on he head of your penis. All you want to do is to find out what movements and areas of your penis tend to arouse and excite your penis.
Don't be concerned at this time about ejaculating. Just learn what feels good. May I suggest that you also very gently move your fingers on the underside of the head of your penis. It is here that the frenulum is located and attached to the foreeskin if you are not circumsized. It is very sensitive to stimulation. You may also wish to try looking at an adult magazine while you are masturbating.
Oh yes, another question - Are you circumsized?
Well, that's about it for now.
Are you circumsized?
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenoussensations - must speak to Rich Tjon(5) no i am not circumcised. ive tried the things u say and nothing feels good. i am actually not worried about ejaculating or not, i am worried about not having any sexual sensations, obviusly i need these sensations to be able to ejaculate but ejaculation is not my primary concern at the moment, getting pleasure from my penis is. thanks for your continued support im sure it must be getting tedioud for u now.
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: no erogenous sensations - must speak to Rich TRichT(4) I was very glad to read that you are not circumcised.
From everything that I have been able to glean in my reading,
uncircumcised males have much greater sensitivity to stimulation.
Also, you are wise in just working on one issue at a time, and for now just getting a feeling of "sexual sensations".
No, corresponding with you is not getting tedious. I like to try and help others.
Let me think about things for a bit and then I'll get back to you.
In the meantime, try masturbating again when you feel the urge and just relax and enjoy it
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