Posted byBindii: In Reply to:I need helpposted by Flory Khalid: I am going to hazard a guess that your husband has some sort of erectile disfunction, in other words he has problems getting and keeping his penis erect. He is most probably embarrassed about this so he is avoiding sex with you. Another reason why this is happening could be that he has some problems believing that sex is dirty, in the past some men with strong religious convictions have had difficulty maintaining an erection or enjoying intercourse. Try to talk your husband into visiting his doctor to discuss his problems with him. There are medications such as viagra that may be able to help your husband get and keep and an erection. There are many reasons why some men have erectile disfunction, sometimes it can be a symptom of different diseases (such as diabete's), from medication or recreational drugs etc. Please ask your husband to go to a doctor.