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Re: my new partner is upset with me
Posted by Bindii:
In Reply to: my new partner is upset with me posted by Kinda upset:
Hey, don't be too upset this can be fixed.
Think about what your girlfriend does to you, does it feel good?....is the pressure and the tempo right? - obviously not. The best thing you can do for your girlfriend is to tell her or show her what you need to reach orgasm. Just explain to her what you would like her to do, for instance if she is masturbating you you can say "I like that", "don't stop" or "faster...harder..softer etc". Or you can put your hand on top of hers and show her how you like it - even better masturbate in front of her so she can observe what you like.
Communication is one of the most important things for a healthy sex life. Your girlfriend is feeling bad, she thinks that she is not good in bed, she thinks that she doesn't turn you on...it hurts.
Its also really important that you enjoy the experience...in other words relax when she is trying to stimulate you. Open your mind, fantasize. Relax and enjoy the sensations. If you have too much pressure on yourself to orgasm then you will have more problems reaching your goal.
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