Posted byPatrice: In Reply to:male sexual healthposted by jake: While masterbating, we can dream...fantasize...since most of our physical fulfillment is triggered from our brain. Having been married a while myself, fantasizing becomes difficult when our partner isn't open to fulfilling fantasies with us, after becoming so familiar with one another nothing is new or exciting, or when we've been denied fulfillment and after a while feel it work to suggest fulfillment, or feel obligation to fulfill our partner. Perhaps you can help guide your partner to masterbate you and likewise do the same for your partner. Sex should be fun! Good Luck!!