Is Masturbating Too Much Causing His Impotence?
"He gives himself many orgasms and none for me!"

Masterbate Question By: sheila
I'm very frustrated, also sad, but I am very much in love with my boyfriend.

I'm 49 years old and my partner is 50... He has not been in very many long term relationships, longest one has been 8 months, for my self I was married for many years then divorced because of a unhealthy relationship, my second relationship lasted almost 10 years then my boyfriend died in 2006.

I met my new man in april of this year. we have great chemistry, laughing, spirituality, cry together, loving, enjoy tantra which he introduced me to. We love the intimacy it brings us.. I good go on, but i need to ask this question...

He told me he used to masturbate alot, and give himself many orgasms and none for me, that's cool, I have too. But I think he is addicted to masturbating , I asked him if he still does and he was open and honest about it.

He says not anymore, I truly want to believe him but research from what little i found was that a man gets a high from doing it himself.

He has let himself go into me once after 6 months the other times we go a very long time making love because of the tantra we can both stop the ejaculation process (i Know that's great).

But he can't ejaculate in me or even when he is still hard or has to pull out because he looses his hardness it becomes limp.

Of course i don't feel like I'm sexually attracted to him but i know i am by the way he touches and loves me, he uses the excuse of being tired or that maybe he's not use to me i say bull crap! not to him though.

The research also says, a man can get moody or not interested in having sex with their partner they are used to giving them pleasure only,,,

I do every thing that turns him on we are both very open, he has taught me to love my body and not to be ashamed because of being used as a sex object all my life.

He wants to be the best lover to me and he is, he tells me that no woman has made him so sexually attracted.

We can talk about anything, except for his hand stimulating himself...i asked him once for honesty and told him that it was okay because he was alone so many years, hey I said i understand i have my toy also. please help me to find out if this is truly a problem or not.

They also say that a man will have trouble focusing if they masturbate too much he has all the symptoms but i have no answers to go with, i'm sorry this is so long but i love my relationship and my man of course...but need help.

Do you think Viagra would help with his erectile dysfunction ? Thanks sheila

I want this relationship to be full of trust, and to be a healthy one...I have come to a point in my life where I have found someone who is compatible and enjoys life the way most people should.

I want to be there no matter what and work on our relationship with our selves and on each other. Hes brought so much fullness into my life he is a bonus and I know he feels that way also.

Recommeded for you
Sexual Health Products

Over-Masterbating Follow Ups:

Masturubating problems advice Reply by: Jason
Well im masterbating at the moment the way that i have read in this article, and bloody hell it feels good, my penis is extreamly erect from the picture's (por*n) i found on the internet, i seem to get very hard when i watch girls mastebating, damm this feel's good,,

Thanks heaps for the advice, im just about to climax i think, ive never climaxed before so i hope it isnt to messy,, Cheers Jason

Immoral to pleasure yourself
Masturbation immoral, sinful and evil man
Posted by: Bill Swanson
You people disqust me! It is immoral to pleasure your self like this! You should all be ashamed. Masterbation is a mortal sin I'll have you know!

Masterbate Reply by: heywood
Bill Swanson, how DARE you impose ur beliefs on others shut ur mouth and keep ur self to urself if u dont like this idea why are u reading such materials?

Masterbate Reply by: Jane Doe
Masterbating is gross - Bill Swanson is right, you are all going to offend the Lord and probably go to hell..you'll probably end up masterbating for all eternity - then how would you feel?

I guess if you had to stroke yourself into eternity you'd come to feel that masterbating (and like activities..like, um...stroking your friends) that masterbating sucks..um..rather, is evil.

Anyway, if you believe in the Lord, you'd put yourself down and start reading something innocent like the Bible (just skip the parts where fornicator are being spoken about)...

E rectile dysfunction treatments Reply by: Meegreepayola - email: anna@annagirl.org
This problem is increasing in large rates in both young and aged couples. One of the largest reasons owing such dissatisfaction is the manly incapability commonly known as Erectile Dysfunction .

In such a picture, men cannot achieve the hard erection in the penis and if at all they cannot recall it for the treatment for a longer time duration. This dysfunction creates a fate of trouble in place of couples and affects both men and women.

Click Free To Ask A Doctor Question if Viagra Cialis Levitra is ok for him. Now, there is option to get it up without drugs, potions or Kegel exercise , it is medical Doctor's ED therapy

Liberate the magical blue pills Reply by: VatnereeEdura
Kill erectile dysfunction . In the vanguard it kills yours and your partners lush relationship. Liberate the magical blue pills and enjoy the alluring consequences.

Partners. Placidness in sexual acts can tantalise your well-being. Is your progenitive idleness ruining your relationship? Something needs to be done in advance, you could loose your bedroom activity.

Just For Guys Newsletter

Poll: Guys, How do you prevent premature ejaculation? Voting poll to take and see results about the ways men control and prevent thier Premature Ejaculation. More posts Close
Regain Your Confidence In The Bedroom Natural herbal treatment products and doctor's medical advice for solutions that works to improve sexual performance and to get back to great sex in the bedroom. More posts Close
Why Men Dont Go to the Doctor Putting off doctor visits, especially for sexual health issues, is a common practice among men. If you are a guy who waits until something is seriously wrong before a visit, you are not alone. All Natural Male Herbal Sexual Enhancement Products More posts Close
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction Dr.Z points out that Erectile Dysfunction is NOT an inevitable part of growing older, a psychological problem, and is NOT an isolated ailment. More posts Close
He Loses It During Foreplay What would cause my husband to have an penile erection, then lose it? It happened 3 different times during foreplay. More posts Close
Male Foreskin Circumcision Wrong or Right For Men Everyone has their own reasons to think circumcision is wrong or right but the male child deserves the right to use THEIR judgment on what is best for their body... More posts Close
Increase Testosterone To Boost Your Bedroom Performance Testosterone Deficiency in men can be congenital or acquired and may lead to erectile dysfunction, low Libido, less sexual desire, decreased sperm production, and muscle and bone degeneration. Video reveals simple boosting Low-T lifestyle technique tips More posts Close
Is Vasectomy A Effective Method Of Contraception? Mine was had long ago and had no trouble. I waited a day for the swelling to subside and guess what? No problems and no complaints and no more children which made both my wife and me happy. More posts Close
Gain MORE Control Over Key Areas of Your Life! This Issue: John Alanis gives us 7 steps to attracting desirable women and how to regain your sense of mastery and control in the bedroom. Put yourself in charge of your own happiness and well-being. More posts Close
How YOU Can Prevent "The Inevitable" Are erection problems an inevitable part of growing older? How about prostate cancer and premature ejaculation? Or worse, the inability to reach orgasm. More posts Close

Masturbating Polls, Books & Myths Videos

Polls: Click for Men, How many times do you masterbate? voting polls...

Books: Click for Male Masturbation Books We Recommend...

Videos: Myth: Male Masturbation is Harmful Video

If a prescription drug is not for you, try natural herbal aphrodisiacs alternatives!
These natural formulations not only increase libido in men and women, they also enhance the sexual experience and improve performance, endurance and pleasure.
Click for men or Click for women

Post a Reply :

Click Free To Ask A Doctor Question

You can now get on with your life

Browse and get to know
others living with STDs
>> Blogs - Forums - Stories - Info

If a prescription drug is not for you, click for libido herbal alternatives formulations that not only increase libido in men, they also enhance the sexual experience and improve performance, endurance and sexual pleasure.