August 5, 2008
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ここずっと忙しくて、久々に週に４５時間とか働いて、更に家では
・・・。昨日から学校が再開し、仕事先も順調だし、新しい学校の
先生もまぁ悪くはないので、特別最悪な状況ではなく、なんとか
日々調節しながらやってます。まぁでも昨日、家で起きた出来事に
ものすごく腹が立ったので、書かせてください。非常識っていうか
なんていうか・・・。ありえない。皆さんの意見も聞きたいところ
だけど、結局は愚痴となるので、読みたくない人は飛ばしてくだ
さいな。っていうか、せっかくだから英語で書きます。。
with an elderly person and kind of look after her. I just
started living with her couple of months ago. Before that,
another Chinese girl had been living with the old lady.
Well, let's call the old lady as Mary and the Chinese girl
as Anne. Mary misses Anne a lot. The first 2 weeks after
Anne left, Mary rang up Anne EVERY DAY. That's fine. They
have lived together for more than 2 years. I know they
miss each other. No problem at all. But Mary still couldn't
stand not having Anne at home, and one day, she asked Anne
to stay over at her home. That was fine. I knew that Mary
liked me but still misses Anne. It's very hard for Mary,
over couple of times. I wasn't really happy about it because
she often comes late at night and Mary worries about it.
Mary worries about everything. She is like...she makes up
a terrible story in her mind and believes it. Oh, dear.
Anyway, when I came home yesterday, Mary said to me that
thought. But actually, I was sick yesterday. I wanted to
go to bed very early. I knew that Anne is not gonna come
before 22 o'clock. I wanted to go to bed before that.
So, I said to Mary, "I'm sorry but I can't be awake and wait
for her to come. I am sick so I'm gonna go to bed now. Say
hello to Anne, please." So I went to bed. After that,
12 o'clock in the middle of the night, the home phone rang,
which is really noisy and woke me up, I knew that was from
Anne, she is always like that, unfortunately. I heard Mary
answered the phone. And few minutes later, I was stunned
by what Mary did. She opened my door which she never did
when I am asleep, and said to me, "Listen darling. I am
so sorry to wake you up but this is very URGENT. Please
talk to Anne on the phone." You know I was sick, but I
said, "OK." And I got out of the bed and forced myself to
the phone to talk to Anne. She explained her situation to
me on the phone. What she said was like this;
She urgently needs to use the internet. She has an online
test and she doesn't have the internet at home. The library
at university will open 9 o'clock next morning and it's too
late. She has to take the test now otherwise she will fail
the university. This is very important.
OH MY GOD. What time do you think it is?! What the hell is
going on?! I was so upset because she is always like this.
She doesn't care about other people's life, really. But all
what I could say was 'OK'. I couldn't say no. So I turned
on my computer and left it in a lounge with a letter because
I didn't wanna be awake and wait for her to come. She knew
I was sick and she still asked me this favour. I can't
accept that. How rude is it? We know each other for only 2
months. Mary and Anne know each other for more than 2 years
but that is totally different. I would have gone to an
internet cafe even if it's hard to find one in the middle
of the night. Anyway, half an hour later, she rang the bell
in front of the bell, which was noisy enough even though
I was in the bed trying to sleep, and Mary opened the door
for her and they started talking quietly. That was fine.
After a while, Mary went to bed and I was stunned again
by what happened next. Anne started using the bloody washing
machine in the middle of the night at 1 o'clock!! Can you
believe that? I know that she has some troubles with using
the washing machine at her home and often brings her laundry
here to wash but how the hell can people be cheaky like this?
Come in the middle of the night, wake people up, make lots
of noise and use the bloody washing machine in the middle of
the night! I wouldn't do that, never, ever. Anyway, I'm not
a good sleeper in that way. It takes me a while to fall
asleep and once I get up, it takes time to go back to sleep
again. Last night, she woke me up at 12 o'clock and I
couldn't go back to sleep for more than 1 hour. I was sick,
upset, it was noisy and terrible, you know? That was sooo
terrible.
Anyway, I didn't see her in the morning because I got up
early and went to school but she was still in the bed.
But she came back at 21 o'clock tonight to pick up something.
Well, I didn't wanna say anything but I didn't want her
to continue this kind of behaviour. So kindly, I said to her,
"I don't wanna say this kind of things but I have to tell
you. I told you that you can come here whenever you want
but I didn't mean you can come late at night. As you know,
if you come late, Mary worries about you. She doesn't want
you to walk by yourself late at night. It's not good for
her." Then...she didn't even say sorry but answered back,
"I know that but what can I do?? Mary wants me to come
and stay over but I'm very busy. I'm a student and working
as well. I don't have time to come here during the day!
What do you want me to do?! It's impossible! Then I will
never come here again!" Oh my god. And actually she said
it in front of Mary and she started to cry...gosh...
I didn't say to her never come here again. I just said to
her that she shouldn't come here late at night because
that worries Mary a lot, so if she can't make it, she
doesn't have to make it, she doesn't have to come here
all the way at night. Well, our conversation didn't go
well because both of us think like "I am right. She is
wrong. She doesn't understand me." At the end of the
conversation or I could say argument, I said to her,
"I think we need some time to think about this problem.
We have different opinions and views. Now we are a bit
emotional so we can't respect each other's opinions.
Probably we should think about it on our own time, not
now. Otherwise this goes nowhere." She didn't even agree
to this opinion. She said to me, "No, you just have to
know people more. I know about Mary more than you do.
I know about her. And you don't know." O-H-M-Y-G-O-D.
She even said to me, "You know what? I'm older than you.
You are not mature enough. You have to learn more things.
You have to get to know people more." Well, that was
partly true. I have to know about Mary more but I've been
here for only 2 months and I'm still on the way. And how
the hell she can say she is mature? Is this person mature
even if she troubles everybody? I don't think so at all.
I didn't say anything to this her opinion because the way
she talked was like, what she is saying is 120% right. Gosh.
This is terrible. At last, she went mad and kind of screamed
at us and went home, which made Mary worrying a lot again.
Terrible.
Anyway, I should go to sleep now. Good night.
・・・。昨日から学校が再開し、仕事先も順調だし、新しい学校の
先生もまぁ悪くはないので、特別最悪な状況ではなく、なんとか
日々調節しながらやってます。まぁでも昨日、家で起きた出来事に
ものすごく腹が立ったので、書かせてください。非常識っていうか
なんていうか・・・。ありえない。皆さんの意見も聞きたいところ
だけど、結局は愚痴となるので、読みたくない人は飛ばしてくだ
さいな。っていうか、せっかくだから英語で書きます。。
with an elderly person and kind of look after her. I just
started living with her couple of months ago. Before that,
another Chinese girl had been living with the old lady.
Well, let's call the old lady as Mary and the Chinese girl
as Anne. Mary misses Anne a lot. The first 2 weeks after
Anne left, Mary rang up Anne EVERY DAY. That's fine. They
have lived together for more than 2 years. I know they
miss each other. No problem at all. But Mary still couldn't
stand not having Anne at home, and one day, she asked Anne
to stay over at her home. That was fine. I knew that Mary
liked me but still misses Anne. It's very hard for Mary,
over couple of times. I wasn't really happy about it because
she often comes late at night and Mary worries about it.
Mary worries about everything. She is like...she makes up
a terrible story in her mind and believes it. Oh, dear.
Anyway, when I came home yesterday, Mary said to me that
thought. But actually, I was sick yesterday. I wanted to
go to bed very early. I knew that Anne is not gonna come
before 22 o'clock. I wanted to go to bed before that.
So, I said to Mary, "I'm sorry but I can't be awake and wait
for her to come. I am sick so I'm gonna go to bed now. Say
hello to Anne, please." So I went to bed. After that,
12 o'clock in the middle of the night, the home phone rang,
which is really noisy and woke me up, I knew that was from
Anne, she is always like that, unfortunately. I heard Mary
answered the phone. And few minutes later, I was stunned
by what Mary did. She opened my door which she never did
when I am asleep, and said to me, "Listen darling. I am
so sorry to wake you up but this is very URGENT. Please
talk to Anne on the phone." You know I was sick, but I
said, "OK." And I got out of the bed and forced myself to
the phone to talk to Anne. She explained her situation to
me on the phone. What she said was like this;
She urgently needs to use the internet. She has an online
test and she doesn't have the internet at home. The library
at university will open 9 o'clock next morning and it's too
late. She has to take the test now otherwise she will fail
the university. This is very important.
OH MY GOD. What time do you think it is?! What the hell is
going on?! I was so upset because she is always like this.
She doesn't care about other people's life, really. But all
what I could say was 'OK'. I couldn't say no. So I turned
on my computer and left it in a lounge with a letter because
I didn't wanna be awake and wait for her to come. She knew
I was sick and she still asked me this favour. I can't
accept that. How rude is it? We know each other for only 2
months. Mary and Anne know each other for more than 2 years
but that is totally different. I would have gone to an
internet cafe even if it's hard to find one in the middle
of the night. Anyway, half an hour later, she rang the bell
in front of the bell, which was noisy enough even though
I was in the bed trying to sleep, and Mary opened the door
for her and they started talking quietly. That was fine.
After a while, Mary went to bed and I was stunned again
by what happened next. Anne started using the bloody washing
machine in the middle of the night at 1 o'clock!! Can you
believe that? I know that she has some troubles with using
the washing machine at her home and often brings her laundry
here to wash but how the hell can people be cheaky like this?
Come in the middle of the night, wake people up, make lots
of noise and use the bloody washing machine in the middle of
the night! I wouldn't do that, never, ever. Anyway, I'm not
a good sleeper in that way. It takes me a while to fall
asleep and once I get up, it takes time to go back to sleep
again. Last night, she woke me up at 12 o'clock and I
couldn't go back to sleep for more than 1 hour. I was sick,
upset, it was noisy and terrible, you know? That was sooo
terrible.
Anyway, I didn't see her in the morning because I got up
early and went to school but she was still in the bed.
But she came back at 21 o'clock tonight to pick up something.
Well, I didn't wanna say anything but I didn't want her
to continue this kind of behaviour. So kindly, I said to her,
"I don't wanna say this kind of things but I have to tell
you. I told you that you can come here whenever you want
but I didn't mean you can come late at night. As you know,
if you come late, Mary worries about you. She doesn't want
you to walk by yourself late at night. It's not good for
her." Then...she didn't even say sorry but answered back,
"I know that but what can I do?? Mary wants me to come
and stay over but I'm very busy. I'm a student and working
as well. I don't have time to come here during the day!
What do you want me to do?! It's impossible! Then I will
never come here again!" Oh my god. And actually she said
it in front of Mary and she started to cry...gosh...
I didn't say to her never come here again. I just said to
her that she shouldn't come here late at night because
that worries Mary a lot, so if she can't make it, she
doesn't have to make it, she doesn't have to come here
all the way at night. Well, our conversation didn't go
well because both of us think like "I am right. She is
wrong. She doesn't understand me." At the end of the
conversation or I could say argument, I said to her,
"I think we need some time to think about this problem.
We have different opinions and views. Now we are a bit
emotional so we can't respect each other's opinions.
Probably we should think about it on our own time, not
now. Otherwise this goes nowhere." She didn't even agree
to this opinion. She said to me, "No, you just have to
know people more. I know about Mary more than you do.
I know about her. And you don't know." O-H-M-Y-G-O-D.
She even said to me, "You know what? I'm older than you.
You are not mature enough. You have to learn more things.
You have to get to know people more." Well, that was
partly true. I have to know about Mary more but I've been
here for only 2 months and I'm still on the way. And how
the hell she can say she is mature? Is this person mature
even if she troubles everybody? I don't think so at all.
I didn't say anything to this her opinion because the way
she talked was like, what she is saying is 120% right. Gosh.
This is terrible. At last, she went mad and kind of screamed
at us and went home, which made Mary worrying a lot again.
Terrible.
Anyway, I should go to sleep now. Good night.
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