How others see us, how others evaluate us, is always a concern.
Being respected gives us the courage to live, while being despised or ignored can make us lose even our confidence to live. That is human nature.
But apart from others' evaluations,
Certainly, some evaluations from others are accurate, and it is important to listen to them humbly. However, we must also know that others' evaluations are not everything. Because others are imperfect human beings too.