Recently, I learned a point of view that we attract situation and people suitable for us just like magnet. In other words, like attracts like
-as I placed before
. Come to think of it... I'm thinking of my tiny distress I faced before: There was a task I was really reluctant to do because people I didn't want to see were coming. At first I tried to avoid it, but on second thought, I decided to face the problem. Then the people concerned turned out to be absent and this matter was called off. (See Feb. 17, 2008)
Later, I heard that the contact with those people concerned was lost just after my decision. Was it because I decided to face the hardship without escaping?
Then:
I remember that I didn't have good first impressions as I found she was making a lot of difficult orders to people around her. Later, she approached me with a kind of interesting opportunity, but soon, her attitude changed quite abruptly and began to make unreasonable orders. Of course I declined it. I suppose she didn't intend to use me, but just set her goal too high without considering the reality and then tried to rely on me -I'm not going to blame her
. Was it because I attracted such troublemakers -considering my tumult at that point-
, or just bad luck?