The laws of the universe are very simple. Whatever energy you focus on, the universe says, “Here you go,” and adds it to your experience. The universe never says, “You don't need that,” or “There's no path ahead for that choice.”
The universe doesn't care what choices you make.
But that means the universe is supporting you with 100% power.
The universe adds to your experience whatever you think, “This is good,” and also adds whatever you think, “This is bad.”
So, why do unwanted experiences get drawn to you? Because you yourself activate the pipeline for unwanted energy to come in. You yourself are attracting it.
Once you grasp this understanding, you can change your own vibration (shift your focus) and control the outcome.