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みんな楽しく笑って暮らせる、そんな人達が集まる所にしたいです。私の日記が何かのヒントになれば幸いです。
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2005.07.18
テーマ： ★つ・ぶ・や・き★(548540)
カテゴリ： 心理学
こんにちは。今日は「楽しい自分しか人は受け入れられない」というお話です。自分が嫌いなことをしていて自分自身を好きになれる人は 少ないと思います。
何でもそうですが
、自分が嫌いなことをしている自分に納得がいくわけがありません。だから、どんなに給料が良くても自分自身が嫌いな仕事をしている人は自分を許せなくなります。自分を騙している自分に許せなくなります。自分を許せない人は他人も許すことができません。自分が好きな ことをしていて
楽しい人は他人を受け入れることができます。他人も認めることができます。だから、人は楽しいことをしていないと駄目になってしまうんです。楽しいことをしている人はいたって健康で、精神的にも安定しています。中学生の半数が自分が嫌いということは自分が何をして良いのか分からなくなっているのだと 思います。
自分に自信が持てないと行動することができません。楽しいことが何なのか？分からなくなると行動ができなくなり、益々自分を嫌いになってしまうのです。だから、親の一言で子供ってものすごく傷ついたら、 励まされたりするんです
。だから、「言葉って刃物と同じ」と聞いたことがあります。一言で生かすこともできるし、殺すこともできるんです。だから、普段使っている言葉ってものすごく大切ですし、他人に、ものすごく影響を与えているんです。自分が嫌いなことをしていて幸せになることはできません。 自分の好きなことを
紙に書き出してすぐに実行したらすっきりしますよ。好きなことをすぐに実行する人は後悔することがなく精神的にも安定しています。 あなたの
好きなことは何ですか？ではまた。＾＾
Hello. It is the talk ", as for people, only pleasant itself is accepted" today. I think that there are few people to whom he is doing the disagreeable thing and can take to himself. Since people are pleasant themselves, they can take to it. Although it had appeared in news, the report that he disliked what a junior high school student's half is itself had come out. It is impossible that he is doing the disagreeable thing and takes to him. Although work or a hobby is also so anything, he cannot be satisfactory to him. [ who is doing the disagreeable thing ] However good a salary may be, it becomes impossible therefore, for those to whom he is doing disagreeable work to allow themselves. It becomes impossible to allow one. [ who is deceiving himself ] Those who cannot allow themselves cannot allow others, either. He is doing the favorite thing and a pleasant person can accept others. Others can also accept. Therefore, people will be spoiled if the pleasant thing is not done. Those who are doing the pleasant thing are very healthy, and mentally stable. I think that that a junior high school student's half dislikes it does not understand it anymore for anything I may carry out. It cannot act, unless it can have confidence in itself. What is a pleasant thing? If it does not understand anymore, action becomes impossible and it will become disagreeable about itself increasingly. Therefore, it will be encouraged if a child gets damaged extremely at parents' word. Therefore, it has heard "Language is the same as an edged tool." It can also employ efficiently at a word and can also kill. Therefore, the language currently used usually is extremely important and others are affected extremely. He is doing the disagreeable thing and cannot become fortunate. If its favorite thing is written out to paper and performed immediately, it will be felt refreshed. Those who perform a favorite thing immediately did not repent and are mentally stable. what is your favorite thing? coming out -- see you again . ^^
Hello. It is the talk ", as for people, only pleasant itself is accepted" today. I think that there are few people to whom he is doing the disagreeable thing and can take to himself. Since people are pleasant themselves, they can take to it. Although it had appeared in news, the report that he disliked what a junior high school student's half is itself had come out. It is impossible that he is doing the disagreeable thing and takes to him. Although work or a hobby is also so anything, he cannot be satisfactory to him. [ who is doing the disagreeable thing ] However good a salary may be, it becomes impossible therefore, for those to whom he is doing disagreeable work to allow themselves. It becomes impossible to allow one. [ who is deceiving himself ] Those who cannot allow themselves cannot allow others, either. He is doing the favorite thing and a pleasant person can accept others. Others can also accept. Therefore, people will be spoiled if the pleasant thing is not done. Those who are doing the pleasant thing are very healthy, and mentally stable. I think that that a junior high school student's half dislikes it does not understand it anymore for anything I may carry out. It cannot act, unless it can have confidence in itself. What is a pleasant thing? If it does not understand anymore, action becomes impossible and it will become disagreeable about itself increasingly. Therefore, it will be encouraged if a child gets damaged extremely at parents' word. Therefore, it has heard "Language is the same as an edged tool." It can also employ efficiently at a word and can also kill. Therefore, the language currently used usually is extremely important and others are affected extremely. He is doing the disagreeable thing and cannot become fortunate. If its favorite thing is written out to paper and performed immediately, it will be felt refreshed. Those who perform a favorite thing immediately did not repent and are mentally stable. what is your favorite thing? coming out -- see you again . ^^
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