I've been in a relationship for 2 years now. I found out my boyfriend masturbates
3
times a day. he lied about it the first year and finally he admitted it. He says
he's been doing it for over 30 years. Why would he feel the need to masturbate when he has a woman that loves having sex, would give it to him as many times as he wanted. I love sex myself but masturbation to me is so empty, no phyical contact and an empty cum. please guys tell me whats up with this. I feel I'm not good enough, my self esteem is gone. I get angry when I found he has masturbated in the car or bathroom.
Male Obsessive Masturbatory Addiction Therapy - Reply by: RTB
Compulsive masturbation disorder addiction , like all other compulsive behaviors, is a symptom of an emotional problem and needs to be addressed by a mental health specialist. It's a good idea for your guy or both of you to see a therapist. Click for sexual addiction therapy Cure.
Husband Needs To Masterbate
- Posted by: kd
I just caught my husband masterbating in the dark while sitting at his
computer at 2AM. I later learned in talking with him that he does this often and
sometimes while looking at p*rn. I was very upset.
I don't have a problem when he needs to masterbate while I'm at work, but like you, there's something wrong when I'm waiting for him to come to bed and he's having sex with himself or while looking at something that's not real. I always thought we had a good sex life, but now I realize we don't have it nearly as much as we could because he's worn himself out minutes before coming to bed.
I was humiliated, and felt rejected, like I was no longer his only sex partner, that he had the option of making love to himself or to me, to getting it on with an inanimate object or me.
He claims he does it several times a day and that most men do. We've been together for over 16 years. Is he being disrespectful, inconsiderate, un-loving? He finds no reason to appologize for his uncontrollable sexual addiction actions. I'm not angry that he masterbates... it's what men do. I'm just hurt that he did it when he could easily have been with me.
Masturbatory Impulsive Behavior Stories - Reply: Cyrrisa8 Regarding the letter on the boyfriend who is compulsive , I have found myself in the same situation with my boyfriend. He masturbates to p*rn at least 3-6 days a week, we don't even have sex that often!
He doesn't see it as a problem and that I shouldn't be bothered by it. I don't understand why he would rather do that than have sex with me! I've tried to talk with him about it but he gets very defensive about his addiction.
Reply by: brendan
the average male masterbates 4-7 times a week
. 3-6 is not alot !
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He used to look at p*rn begind my back in 1981 but swears he has never done it again and does not masterbate.I an tired of never haviung sex from him. He comes home and sits in front of the TV all night then goes to bed alone as he snores and I can't sleep.
I have asked him why he doesn't want sex with me aand he uses the excuse that I am always mad at him. Well, Why am I mad, because he never want sex and I am tired of never having it.
I am to the point of leaving because of his lack of intrest in me or sex. He even takes Viagra and testerone pills but still doesn't come to me. I am slim and do not lack in looks. He acts like he is a zombie. Tired and fed up!
Boyfriend Constantly Masterbates - Posted by: BECKY
Thank God I thought I was the only one with a boyfriend that constantly masterbates
...
I found him in his garage in his truck...
Why do they do this it makes me feel so unwanted?
Obsessive masturbation interaction
Reply:MSH
Maybe what he needs for you do is, a obsessive masturbation interaction plan with a professional therapist
,
friends or family.
Check out this Masturbation Intervention Story...
Men's Compulsive Self-Stimulating Treatment - Posted by: Jeff Heisler I am in a Sex Offender Treatment program and one of my assignments is to complete a Cycle Snake on Compulsive Masturbation addiction. What brings self-stimulation on. What are the pre-cursors to this sexual acting out other than mere boredom? Any help would be much appreciated.
What brings it on
Reply by: mike
What do you mean by "Cycle Snake"?
Did compulsive masturbation
lead you to be a Sex Offender?
Let us know "What brings it on" and "What are the pre-cursors to this sexual acting out other than mere boredom?"
We would all like to know the answers to these questions from your personal obsessive experience to stop this addiction
.
Good Luck!
Ever since then I started looking into compulsive masturbation addiction , it all started making sense. I am just wishing this problem doesn't get to the point where his fantasies are not enough and needs to go out to get sex from other women. We are planning to seek counseling in hopes this is actually what he has so we can get help, and not let it end our relationship. I'm thinking that perhaps too much play will have some kind of injury or impotence effect....
Habit support therapy
- Reply by: Bo
You don't have any issues and it is not your fault at all.
You fellow needs support and help quitting the habit
, the short term process of stopping can be easy but the possibility of a relapse as well. 9 years is a long time of commitment and shouldn't be just forgotten that easily. Give him a chance and some time to get the help he needs and I'm sure things will turn out for the better.
I have had it - Posted by: Shannon It really is nice to know Im not the only one, I have a high sex drive and the last 2 relationships I have been in they both have masturbated while I was home instead of having sex with me I am very attractive and it makes me feel really bad about myself I just dont understand.
I just am tired of feeling like this and I try to explain it, even if they were to do it and then still have sex with me I wouldnt have an issue but after they dont want to be with me. I have had it and am about to get rid of another relationship because of it. No one should have to feel this way. Its nice to be able to vent and share this with people who understand.
Feel dirty
Posted by: harrison
i have done for almost 6yrs and makes one to feel dirty and separates one from God.
it is associated with devil worshipping since devil makes one to feel
sexy.
Feel obligated
Posted by: wondering - email: [email protected]
I just want to know - do they actually want to have sex or do they feel obligated and just have sex because
they know they should be hsving sex with their girlfriends?
Cheating desire
Posted by: hiddin man
this i all common dear... it is actually helping your husband not to cheat on you...the truth is man sexual fantasy is way high the u girls imagine...
they are tow types of man who are either satisfy masturbating or cheating to fulfill their desire
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