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"Playing With Himself Behind Closed Door "

Behind Closed Doors Playing With Himself Playing With Himself Behind Closed Doors - Posted by:sara
My boyfreind has been mastebating alot more latley and isn't hiding it from me anymore. we broke up for about a yaer and have recently gottn back together. He fell in love with this girl who had the body type he's attracted to and is the opposite of mine.

Since we've gotton back together the sex has changed and that scares me. We always watch p*rn before sex but latley he's been watching it by himself behind closed doors playing with himself while I'm right here. I'v told him many times that wat he's doing is making me feel insecure about my body and making me doubt his true feelings but nothings changed.

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A good relationship has no secrets guy A good relationship has no secrets - Reply by: MSH
If you feel he doesn't find you attractive, the only way your going to feel better is when you can find somebody who make you feel better.
First confront him on your feelings and go from there.
A good relationship has no secrets to hide.

Posted by: josh
I'm happily married at age 21 and can't remember the last time i masterbated , i was addicted to masterbating to p*rn. my then fiance told me she couldn't understand why i liked it so much and i really couldn't either (also, we were together for a long time before having sex, so that could be why). My advice to all the men addicted to p*rn is delete all of it and communicate with your partner about what you want . sometimes we masterbate together for a quickie.

Fellow's Too Much Masturbation guy Fellow's Too Much Masturbation - Posted by: Erin
I was wondering if perhaps you could answer a perplexing question that's been on my mind for some time now. My current partner, a 26 year old guy, can go on and on and on for literally 2 (and more) hours (I'm a very lucky woman, I suppose). On the contrary, last night we were in the middle of play and he went limp.

My fellow is sick right now, so maybe that has something to do with it, but I was wondering if too much masturbation addiction can cause a man to either go forever (like training) or, on the contrary, limpen (due to fatigue?). I know he's a daily kind-of-fellow, and I'm thinking that perhaps too much play will have some kind of injury or impotence effect....
I appreciate any insight you can give me..

Man's Impulsive Behavior - Posted By: Big Mike
I masturbate everyday and 3 times a week I have sex with my wife. I have to wear a condom for birth control and it helps me bring a longer time for ejaculation. I give my wife much pleasure and get much for myself. It is like a man's obsessive habit but has not interfered with our sex life for we have been married for 34 years.

Posted By:annonymosso how do I talk to my bf about this? He get's defensive and angry and then it's hard to stay on subject and get an honest answer.

We satisfy ourselves in a more direct, baser, instinctual way - Reply By:aromeoh
Look, the simple truth is many men do it and it has nothing to do with you. He was doing it long before you came along and he will continue to. It is more comparable to you taking a long hot bubble bath than it is an opportunity to withhold sex. Men have introspective needs that women also have yet satisfy in other, less direct ways.

Like shopping and "FEELING" sexy in that new outfit. We satisfy ourselves in a more direct, baser, instinctual way. No frills, no mess, and most importantly no explanation or communication needed. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and letting your insecurity ruin your relationships-and especially quit blaming your insecurities on us.

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