Posted by Confused:When I am with my new girlfriend, we do all of the usual touchy feely stuff. But this really arouses me. I do not ejaculate semen fluid, but I get wet. Sometimes very wet. I do not have an orgasm though. I am a virgin and my g/f isn't, and I feel that this is all going to get messy (So to speak).
She also has the upper hand coz she knows what she is looking for and I don't. I know that it is not going to last long, but I don't think that it is going to last anytime at all when we get started. Sometimes the sperm fluid gets a little too messy and I cannot control it. I also do not need an erection for this to happen.
Is it my age that is causing me to be aroused so easily, or is it a problem that I need to see the doc about? I do not have much confidence in myself as it is, but this is just making things worse for me and I don't think I will be able to cope when we get round to things.
I sooooo hope that someone can help.
Thank you in advance
Okay, now for the "lecture". You are only 17 years old. Yes, I know those hormones are flowing, BUT -- if you mean be "first sexual relationship" to be intercourse, then I say you had better think again. Sexual intercourse carries with it a great deal of responsibility. Today with HIV-AIDS , STD, etc . sex is not something you should take lightly. AND then there is that possibility that your girlfriend will become pregnant. THAT can and will change your life completely (and not for the better I might add).
Sure, I have no problem with the "touchy feely stuff", and maybe manual/oral stimulation, but intercourse is a whole new ballgame.
If you still say to this oldie, "forget it, we are still going to have sex", then I say you MUST at least practice safe sex. That means WEAR A CONDOM , and I mean it!!!
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Reply by: Confused Boy
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Don't worry, i am an intelligent young man (If i do say so myself). I aint running into this like an idiot.
I never go out without protection, just as a precaution. I wouldn't have sex without them, even though my girlfriend is on the 'pill'
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I will definitely NOT get her preggers because i have to much going for me right now, and that will spoil it all. I have a good career going now, which i can go a long way with. I can afford to have a family, but i aint thinking of anything stupid like that 'till i am 26 (My lucky number). I am fully aware of what i am doing and i have been preparred for sex for a some time now. I am not going to make any silly, life-changing mistakes.
It was that 'male leaking precum lubricant' bit that i was worried about...it seems to be a bit out of control and i was wondering if there is anything i can do to help keep control. I really hope that it is something that happens to everyone, not just me.
Maybe you do have a good flow of "male precum lubricant". Be glad you do. When you are married and don't need a condom you will be so very very glad that you do have a good flow of lubricant coming from your penis (and so will your partner. I'm in my mid 60's and when my penis is aroused and erect, and I walk across the floor, there will be "dribbles" of that natural lubricant that either hits my leg or the floor.
Just as a side note - I can remember when I was going with a great girl. There were several times when we were "fooling around" but still with our clothes on that I would ejaculate semen fluid in my jeans. That was a bit messy. Oh well.
SOOOoo for you, just take some tissues along with you to absorb all that great natural precum lubricant you have. Frankly, I'm betting your girlfriend would love it.
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