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Taylor Swiftwas noticeably absent from the Kansas City Chiefs’ game against the Buffalo Bills at Highmark Stadium this weekend.
Despite being just a short 40-minute private flight away and having a break in her jam-packedEras Tourschedule, the global superstar decided to skip the trip.
So, why didn’t she make her first road-game appearance of the season?
Here’s what we know about why Taylor was MIA for the Chiefs’ toughest game of the season.
No Away Game Appearances This Year
So far this season, Taylor Swift has only attended Chiefs games at Arrowhead Stadium.
Fans have loved watching her cheer from the stands, where she’s seen celebrating with the Kelce family and friends.
This has become a recurring highlight for Swifties andNFLfans alike. However, when the Chiefs hit the road, Taylor has stayed put.
Even with her tour on a break until Thursday, when she’s set to perform in Toronto, she passed up the chance to support Travis.
Even though, many considered it the Chiefs’ toughest matchup of the season againstJosh Allenand the Bills.
This decision surprised fans, especially since Swift has flown across the country—and even internationally—for personal and professional commitments.
The question on everyone’s mind: why skip Buffalo?
The answer may lie in her last experience at Highmark Stadium.
Back in January, Taylor attended a nail-biting Divisional Round playoff game between the Chiefs and the Bills.
While Kansas City walked away with the win, the night wasn’t as enjoyable for Taylor or the Kelce family as fans might assume.
According to Turner Sports broadcasterAdam Lefkoe, the Kelce family, including Taylor, faced hostility from the infamous Bills Mafia.
Known for their intense loyalty and wild antics, the fanbase didn’t roll out the red carpet for the Chiefs’ tight end or his high-profile girlfriend.
“I have heard from people very close that it was not a great experience in Buffalo,” Lefkoe said on theUp and Adamsshow.
“They experienced Bills Mafia in full form, in its complete ruthlessness. I think they left and went, ‘I don’t know if I want to experience that again.’”
Taylor was reportedly “shocked” by the negativity, despitecelebratingthe Chiefs’ win with Travis’ family. Jason Kelce, Travis’ brother, even joined in the fun, going shirtless and chugging beers in the stands.
But it seems the rowdy reception left a sour taste, which could explain Taylor’s decision to skip this game.
Another reason for her absence could be her grueling tour schedule.
Taylor has been on the road for nearly two years,performingover 150 shows since theEras Tourkicked off in March 2023.
With just six concerts left—three in Toronto this coming weekend and three in Vancouver in December—she may be focused on closing out her tour with a bang.
Balancing a historicconcerttour and a budding relationship with one of the NFL’s biggest stars isn’t easy.
Taking a weekend to rest and recharge might have been exactly what Taylor needed before heading back on stage.
What About Thanksgiving with Travis?
Fans are also wondering if Taylor will spendThanksgivingwith the Kelce family.
However, Donna Kelce recently revealed that the family doesn’t have big holiday plans because the Chiefs play the Las Vegas Raiders on Black Friday.
“I am going to be at a football game,” Donna said during an appearance onTODAY. “Travis is playing the day after Thanksgiving. You know, football is always the holidays. It’s football’s family. Not that anything’s planned. I think we’re just going to be at the football game.”
While the Kelces may not have a traditional Thanksgiving dinner planned, Taylor could still join them for the game or spend some downtime with Travis before or after.
The Kansas City Chiefs lost to the Buffalo Bills 30-21, withTravis Kelcehaving a quieter game, catching just two passes for eight yards.
While Travis focuses on upcoming games, including a match against the Carolina Panthers on Monday, November 25, Taylor Swift is busy wrapping up herEras Tour.
She’ll perform three shows at Toronto’s Rogers Centre starting Thursday, November 21, before finishing the tour in Vancouver on December 6.
Fans are also excited about the possibility of the couple celebrating Taylor’s 35th birthday together on December 13, as her tour will be over by then.
Key Moments in Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s Romance
Date
Event
July 8, 2023
Kelce attends Swift’sEras Tourconcert in Kansas City.
July 26, 2023
Kelce shares on his podcast that he tried to pass Swift his phone number at the show.
August 2023
Swift reveals they started dating shortly after Kelce’s podcast episode aired.
September 21, 2023
Kelce publicly invites Swift to one of his football games
September 24, 2023
Swift makes her first appearance at a Chiefs game against the Chicago Bears.
October 1, 2023
Swift attends her second Chiefs game
October 5, 2023
Swift reportedly travels to Missouri to spend Kelce’s 34th birthday weekend with him.
October 12, 2023
Swift shows up at her third Chiefs game after debutingThe Eras Tourfilm.
October 14, 2023
The couple is spotted holding hands publicly for the first time.
November 10, 2023
Kelce flies to Buenos Aires to join Swift after the start of her Latin American tour.
November 11, 2023
Kelce attends anotherEras Tourconcert, where Swift changes the lyrics of “Karma” for him.
November 11, 2023
Swift and Kelce share their first kiss in front of the public.
December 3, 2023
Swift cheers for Kelce at a game in Green Bay, Wisconsin.
December 6, 2023
Swift officially confirms their relationship
January 28, 2024
Swift celebrates with Kelce as the Chiefs secure their spot in the Super Bowl.
February 11, 2024
Swift joins Kelce on the field after he wins the Super Bowl.
April 13, 2024
The couple attends Coachella together.
April 27, 2024
Kelce refers to Swift as his “significant other” at a charity gala.
May 12, 2024
Kelce watches Swift perform at her 87thEras Tourshow.
June 23, 2024
Kelce makes a surprise appearance on stage duringThe Eras Tour.
September 7, 2024
Swift takes Kelce as her date to a friend’s wedding.
September 11, 2024
Swift gives a shout-out to “my boyfriend Travis” during the VMAs.
October 7, 2024
Swift returns to Arrowhead Stadium to support Kelce after skipping a few games.
This timeline highlights the major milestones in Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s relationship
Conclusion
Taylor Swift’s decision to skip the Chiefs’ game in Buffalo reminds us that even global icons like her have to make choices about where to focus their energy.
Whether it’s avoiding a potentially hostile environment, taking time to recharge before the final leg of her monumentalEras Tour, or balancing her personal life with an incredibly demanding career, Taylor is navigating this high-profile chapter on her own terms.
While fans may have been disappointed not to see her in the stands, there’s no doubt she’s cheering Travis Kelce on from afar.
With her tour wrapping up and the NFL season heading into its most exciting phase, it won’t be long before we see Taylor back in action—either on stage or in the stands.
Until then, she’s proving that sometimes, it’s okay to take a step back and focus on what truly matters.
Last Updated: November 18, 2024
