Children are entrusted to us - Rejoicing in the growth of the other is a form of love.
First of all, we must know the origin. That human beings are eternal souls. That we are reborn in different places to learn to love.
And that we don't always see each other, we may not see each other for hundreds or thousands of years.
And that the purpose of the family, the community of destiny, is to learn to love deeply by being deeply involved together. We do not learn by hurting each other.
It is often said that “children are a gift,” but in reality, children are not a gift, but a “possession.
Children are precious beings given to us to live with, learn to love, and grow with each other for 20 or 30 years at the most after birth. When the time comes for them to become adults and leave the nest, we should send them off without holding them back.
What about when a baby bird leaves the nest? When the chicks grow up, whether they are swallows or not, the mother will teach them how to fly. When they are ready to fly, they will fly away from the nest without looking back. The mother would not follow and try to hold them back.
She will say, “Thank you for being born to our child for a moment now. Thank you for teaching us free love. And then, “Let me help you develop your personality to the best of my ability. But at the end of the day, you are the one who decides your own life. It is a mother's job to nurture the important spirit of independence and let them fly away from the nest. That is a mother's job and a parent's job.
Amalie, from “The Venusian Law of Becoming a Spiritual Beauty