今が生死

2016.07.15

認知症の親は老人介護施設に入れるべきだ。You should let your dementia parent into the nursing home.

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カテゴリ：生き方

時代は確実に変わった。昔は親や配偶者を養老院に入れると親不孝者と言われた。だから親や配偶者を老人ホームに入れるのは気がひけた。
先日89歳の旦那さんが昼も夜も騒いで苦しめられている78歳の女性が私の外来に来た。自宅でご主人を介護していたので夜は眠らせてもらえず、体重が３kg 以上減ってしまった。彼女の顔は暗く落ち込んでいて、自分も病気になりそうだと言っていた。
しかし、今日私の外来に来た時には、彼女の顔は輝いており、ふくよかだった。体重も増えた。旦那さんが介護施設に入れたのだ。彼女は幸福そうだったが、待機老人がまだ600人以上いるとのことだった。もし入れるものなら、親不孝者などと言う人は今はもういないから認知症の親は老人介護施設に入れるべきである。日本政府は十分な老人介護施設を確保できるような政治を行ってもらいたい。

Age has changed, it was said that if you let your parents or partner into the nursing home,
you are an impious person in the old days.
We were ashamed to bring our parents or partner to the nursing home.
A 78 year old woman who were suffered by her 89 year old husband who made a lot of noise day and night came to my clinic the other day .
She lost her body wight over 3kg when she had cared for him in her house
because he didn't put her to sleep.
Her face was dark and depressive and said she would become ill soon.
But when she came to my clinic today, her face is bright and plump.
Her body weight has increased. Her husband was accepted in the nursing home.
She is happy, but there are still more than 600 elderly people with dementia who are waiting to enter
the nursing home,she told me.
We should let our parents with dementia into the nursing home if there are rooms,
as nobody say you are impiety now.
The government of Japan should set a policy to have sufficient nursing homes for nation.

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