I have no assbug vis-a-vis Phil, but he seems to have one regarding me, so I'm not holding my breath.
It's a pity, because we were good friends as well as colleagues, and I always enjoyed Phil's company.
I re-met the subject of 'Suzanne' two or three years ago. It felt good to renew a connection, and expunge any ghosts, with the Susan who had so completely bedazzled me in 1982.