I do not like the institution of marriage as determined by earthly law. I don't like the institution of marriage determined by earthly law because I feel that it is constrained from the outside by the law and the marriage certificate. I don't like the feeling that because there are restrictions, I will not cheat on my husband. I am a person who loves freedom more than anything else. I want to meet my partner with more freedom. That does not mean that I am saying that I am free to cheat on my partner.
The original partner was not decided upon by man. There is a soul partner who was originally created and separated from God. We must make an effort to find that partner.
That is not to say that you should not get married until you find your soul partner. We should try to get married even if the partner is not our true soul partner. Marriage and living together can give you many different experiences.
It is better to live together than to be alone. You will see things that you could not see if you lived alone. Married couples are like mirrors, mirroring each other's reflection. It allows a man to grow as a man and a woman to grow as a woman, and it allows the soul to grow. In marriage, we learn more about our own soul. It is through the other person that we come face to face with the individuality of our own soul.
Of course, you are free to marry or not to marry. But I recommend that you get married, even if it is not your true partner. If you get married and it turns out to be a failure, that's okay. Instead of doing nothing, choose a life of doing something, making mistakes, and learning from them.
Do not be timid about meeting the opposite sex. I will say it again and again. The soul is eternal. You can fail, but you can learn and grow from it.
Manu From “Gaia Dawn: How the Living and Conscious Earth Was Born