However, if infants grow up without being loved enough, they cannot have high self-esteem. No one can love others more than they love themselves. And they cannot be loved more than they love themselves -I also learned
. There are neither perfect parents nor teachers; some parents might be so busy for their work to earn a living that they cannot have enough time with their children, and some might not know well how to show their love and affection. So they should realize the fact sooner or later, and somehow try to wash out low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy and get high self-esteem... To begin with, to accept and love yourselves as you are. But looking down on others to flatter themselves is never means for that!
They might feel a sense of superiority only for short time, but it ends up showing how they are cowardly and mean.
InFeb. 2007, I went to a concert of Stevie Wonder
for the second time. (See Mar. 3, 2007)
At that time, I realized that his song is filled with love -it was what I couldn't find in Jan. 2004 when I went to his concert for the first time
. " Love
" is not only for a man and a woman. This is a mind to respect other people around us and live together
. -But I feel those "Love" is lost these days. I wonder adults cannot afford to loving children enough lately -of course it's just a part of various factor
It's nothing new to mention atrocious crimes by young people including teenagers and various other problem -those seeds of disruption and disaster had already been sown at least since those young criminals were born -someone analyzed and told me. That's why I thought of this song this time: Love's in need of love
in Japan, too -just as Stevie sings.
◇ :Ready to place translation as well as Jul. 30 if asked