Recently I learned to realize my misunderstanding I had been holding-
We can't truly love another without loving ourselves first. In short, loving myself leads to real self-confidence. " Believing myself
" might be easier idea to understand and accept -I suppose at present
.
・Responsibility and blame is different: The word "responsibility" consists of "response" and "ability", I was taught.
Taking responsibility for something is future-oriented idea, thinking what we can do next
On the other hand, irresponsibility -or sifting the blame-
is blaming other people or situation; past-oriented idea, and no one can change the past. By the way - as I was translating today's sentences using on-line dictionary, I found an explanation saying: Taking responsibility for something does not mean resignation, but admitting your responsibility for the problem when it occurs, and taking measures to deal with the situation
. A related story is coming later...