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2015.11.05

Recently, when I went to a soba noodle restaurant, under a photo of shrimp tempura on menu, there was a notice that cooking ingredients are naturally-derived, so shrimps can be small .
-It can invite a kind of derisive laughter, but such a notice means there are customers who complain on such a thing.
-Or excessive self-defense by the restaurant? At that time, there was no distinguishing.

A doctor and a movie director wrote that obstinacy shows a beginning of aging; ability to apologize frankly for mistakes is one of the keys to stay young .
-Then, based on this idea, I should reflect on myself that in the late 2000s, I was "aged" more than now.
A barkeeper of exclusive night club wrote that attitude of scolding shows true personality -in case someone makes mistakes, it's necessary to admonish and correct problems not to cause bad results .
Now I understand that the senior co-worker who destroyed my mind twelve years ago was a typical negative exemplum.
-there is no finding now, though .
At that time, this senior co-worker had appealed of being narrow-minded by destroying other young workers as well as me, and brought loss to the company as a result .
Back then, I had no idea of considering this senior co-worker as pity, though -I ended up in allowing my mind get destroyed instead of escaping or succeed and get back at this senior co-worker.
-But this is the past; I'm still busy trying to build my future.
Back to the beginning:

Complaints can be just and fair, but I'd like to advocate that people who simply in triumph by running down others, who are described as monsters, need to realize what they trample on is dignity of themselves and make society tough place to live by themselves
-It would be fruitless, on the second thought.
Recently, I learned that different true feeling is hidden behind anger .
But true feeling of wannabe-white hats and "monsters" would be just selfishness or simple pleasure of running down others.

Since I became my twenties, I have been trying to learn how to handle with unreasonable people;

And I have expounded that someone who like to speak ill of others would have no right to be happy.
However, I wonder what if I'm the one to be such irritable?
If so, I wonder how to realize it and change myself...

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