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For a long time, even when women marry abusive husbands, they had put up with tyrannical control,
Mainly because most woman had no other means to live but marriage, and they were supposed to subordinate to men under the assumption that the world consists of only MEN .
But now, oppressed wives never hesitate to fight for liberty and safety.
They've learned that they have a right to protect their safety and dignity , and also, under labor decline and nationwide poverty, working and making money for living is natural for women as well as men .

At the same time, in our state, family system is still feudalistic.
Especially, marriage is still precondition to have children ; our nation estranges single mothers, except for widows and their children who lost fathers.

Then they still have a chance to have children again if they are young in age.
　But some might decide that they've had enough of marriage ,
　　Or in case they have children, they may be too busy supporting themselves and childcare to encounter new partners, since women tend to be underpaid than men.
Those moves mean that women can lose opportunity to have children due to abusive men.
To sum up quickly , abusive husband is one of the crucial culprits of childbirth decline .

Traditional patriarchy, confusing manly behavior with violence , gender division of work have churn out abusive men, and those fathers raise abusive sons and daughters who resign themselves to control by such men.
But now younger generation, especially women must be seeing the reality well.
Some become very careful about marriage, some may decide living independently is much happier.

To simplify
The fact looks farcical.
Some of them respect his wife, but some must treat his wife as subordinate servants, assuming that the wives cannot say no to master who feed her.
Then I would advocate them to speak for themselves before criticizing younger generation, especially women .
Your wife might learn from younger generation and rise in revolt someday.
Again, I borrow a translation of an article if parents raise boys properly to respect women, women are saved .
When does this slogan come true? Or before gender equality comes true, is our nation gone taking the process I mention above?
Occasionally, wife abuses her husband.
But in reality, in most cases of domestic violence and moral harassment, husband is batterer.

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