After I met with a very unlikable man who exhausted me-
(See Apr. 28, 2007)
I joined a neurolinguistic programming seminar during Golden Week holiday. I had known thatwhat bothered me the most was my poor caliber. I analyzed that my anger was caused by a friction between myself who wish to be grown-up
and myself who acted childish
. It's impossible to change other people, or in this case, there is no use. So I decided: Always be calm and polite, and act fair and square. I can be contrary to his expectations
- how he wants me to act and respond.
Of course it's difficult to put it into practice well immediately. But I thinkit's like learning to ride a bicycle.