愛・感謝 きっと大丈夫！何とかなる！
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おはようございます。今日は「一番離婚率の低い職業は船乗り」というお話をしたいと思います。船乗りの旦那さんを持つ夫婦というのは離婚率が一番低いそうです。船乗りの方は漁に出ると3ヶ月は家に帰ってきません。帰って来ても10日間くらいしか家にいれないんですね。その10日間をどれだけ居心地良く過ごしてもらうかをお互い考えるらしく喧嘩することがまずないのです。距離って関係無いことが分かりますよね。どんなに離れていても相手を思う気持ちがあれば大丈夫なんですね。逆に近づき過ぎるとお互いの詮索を始めるのだと思います。相手が自分と近いと相手がどれだけ自分のことを思っているのか、試したくなるらしいのです。人間関係は誰でも一緒だと思うのですが、近づきすぎず、離れすぎずが一番良いと思います。相手の嫌なところ、見なくても良いところも近づき過ぎると見えてしまうのですね。友人関係もそうですし、家族関係もそうだと思います。常に身近にいる人は「居て当たり前」になりがちです。でもその人がいなくなって初めてその人の存在の有り難さが分かるのだと思います。人って勝手ですから、居ると邪魔に思ったり居ないと居て欲しいと思うものです。笑 誰に対しても感謝することがお互い一番良い人間関係を築けるんですね。では良い一日を。＾＾Good morning. I want to carry out the talk "the occupation with the lowest divorce rate is a mariner" today. Seemingly, the husband and wife with a mariner's master have the lowest divorce rate. If it comes out of mariners to a fishery, he will not come home for three months. Even if it comes back, does it put into a house only about 10 day room? It hardly quarrels [ whether which has the ten days passed with sufficient comfortableness, and ] mutually appropriate for thinking. It turns out that there is no distance a relation. It is OK if there is a feeling which thinks of a partner, however it may be separated. Conversely, if it approaches too much, I will think that each other inquiry is begun. When a partner is as near as himselves, a partner wants to come to try which considers one's thing. Although it thinks that anyone's human relations are together, it does not approach too much, he separates too much, and thinks that it is the best. If the place which does not need to be seen also draws near too much, will it be visible a partner's disagreeable place? I also regard a friend relation as that's right, carrying out and a family relation being so. Those who are always close tend to become "natural [ be and ]." But the man stops there being and I think that the kindness of the man's existence is known for the first time. After people are selfish, I think that I want you to be if you do not think that it is obstructive with it being or it is not. Smile Can appreciating to anyone build human relations with good each of No. 1? Then, one good day. ^^
2005.06.14
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