What you probably have is Performance Anxiety - when guys have trouble "getting it up".
It can happen whereby you do get erect, and as you're about to have sex, you lose your erection, or it can be when you're actually in the course of having intercourse, you lose the erection and goes soft, limp and hanging, or you don't get erect at all.

So it can happen in any of those kind of ways. Usually what happens is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is orgasm or pleasing the partner with an orgasm, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that they're having as opposed to the final goal -- more focusing on the process rather than the product.

Stress can also also be a erection buster.

Click to locate a doctor near you in the USA , to see if you made need Viagra, cialis, Levitra , for your erectile function trouble. or, try OTC sexual performance alternatives! . And, a sexual therapist would be benificial to sort things out for you.

Or, try this medical doctor advice that can help without drugs, pills or potions .

Don't forget to use condoms for STDs and infections protection. Good Luck!

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