I am reading “Dreams from my father" written by former President Obama. When Obama was a boy 2 years old, the black father did not come back home in Hawaii. After that the mother married Indonesian and moved Indonesia, I was thinking her how abandoned woman because I did not know details, but I understood the reason and agreed after reading this book. According to this book the Indonesian was classmate with the Obama boy’s mother at the University of Hawaii as well as the first black father. When the Indonesian know that the black father is gone, he came to Hawaii's home often when Obama boy was 4 years old, often went to wrestle with a boy and played chess with a boy's grandfather and he was stuck in her house. After two years he proposed to come to Indonesia. The Obama boy who heard it from his mother replied "If you love him” Then the mother trembled her cheeks and caught her tears and hugged Obama boy forever. Then grandparents prepared immediately, and they flight to Indonesia. On a three day stopover in Japan, the mother and son saw the great bronze Buddha at Kamakura and ate green tea ice cream on a ferry that passed through high mountain lakes.