Love is not a feeling; happiness is a feeling. Love is not an emotion; anger is an emotion. Love is not a state; confusion is a state. Love can include feeling and emotion and leave you in a state, but love is, at heart, a decision. Loves sees the imperfections, sins and fallings and says, “I still choose to love you.”
-----Blessed Are the Bored in Spirit: A Young Catholic’s Search for Meaning