The other day, I had a talk with my mom's hobby friends. Ofcourse they talk about their hobbies, but their talks were mainly about their health, pensions, how to get their children to
Even though we differ in generations, girls talks are always the same. Anyways the girls talk moved on to how to get their children to get married. Then one of the ladies said, "Do you know the 3 conditions of marrying a man?? You should find one of these 3 men. An intelligent man, a rich man and a handsome man." "Why??", I asked. "If you marry an intelligent man, you will have an intelligent child with a bright future. If you marry a rich man, you have nothing to worry about economically, if you stay married or get divorced. If you marry a handsome man, you will have a beautiful child and might be a star someday." "Really!?, huh?!" "May I ask one question??", I said to her. "I married a very intelligent man, but it didn't work out for me. I couldn't play a role of a mother trying to raise a researcher to win a Nobel Prize. Now how is that??" "Well, then you have to find yourself either a rich man or a handsome man." Then everyone laughed. After few days, I talked to one of my friends who also had a divorce like me about this story. And she gave me an instant answer, "Ofcourse I would choose a rich man!" What I know now for sure is that I don't want to get married again for a while.