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Selena Gomezhas captivated the world not just with her talent but also with her high-profile love life.
From her infamous on-again, off-again relationship with Justin Bieber to her current engagement to music producer Benny Blanco, Selena’s romantic journey has been full of ups and downs.
Let’s take a stroll down memory lane and revisit her relationship history.
Nick Jonas (2008)
Selena’s first brush with celebrity romance was with Nick Jonas of the Jonas Brothers in 2008.
During their brief relationship, Selena even appeared in the music video for the band’s hit song,Burnin’ Up.
Though their young love didn’t last, there was no bad blood.
Years later, Selena clarified that there was no feud between her andMiley Cyrus, who also dated Nick around the same time.
She toldW Magazinein 2016,“We never feuded. We both liked the same guy when we were 16… We are now completely settled in our own lives.”
Taylor Lautner (2009)
Selena briefly datedTwilightstar Taylor Lautner in 2009.
The two met while Selena was filmingRamona and Beezusand Taylor was working onThe Twilight Saga: New Moon.
She later revealed that the intense public attention on their relationship made things difficult.
“People were getting a little crazy about us,”Selena shared withSeventeenmagazine. Their romance was short-lived, but they remained amicable.
Selena’s most talked-about relationship was her tumultuous on-again, off-again romance with Justin Bieber.
The pair first sparked dating rumors in 2009 when Justin serenaded Selena duringDick Clark’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve.
Over the years, the duo attendedred carpetevents together and became a fan-favorite couple, dubbed“Jelena.”
Their relationship faced multiple ups and downs, with breakups reportedly fueled by jealousy and public scrutiny.
In 2014, Selena discovered photos of Kylie Jenner on Justin’s phone, leading to another breakup.
They rekindled their romance in late 2017, but it ended for good in March 2018, just months before Justin’s engagement to Hailey Baldwin (now Bieber).
Selena later called the breakup “the best thing that ever happened to her” in her Apple TV+ documentaryMy Mind & Me, stating, “I had to go through the worst heartbreak ever to choose myself and life again.”
She channeled her pain into music, releasing the emotional breakup anthemsLose You to Love MeandLook at Her Now.
Orlando Bloom (2014)
In 2014, Selena was linked toLord of the Ringsactor Orlando Bloom.
Rumorsswirled that the two hooked up to make their respective exes, Miranda Kerr and Justin Bieber, jealous.
However, Selena and Orlando denied the rumors when they were spotted together at a Chelsea Handler comedy show.
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Zedd (2015)
In early 2015, Selena began dating DJ and producer Zedd after collaborating on the hit songI Want You to Know.
Zedd later opened up about the pressures of dating someone as famous as Selena.
“Reporters were calling my parents. People were hacking my friends’ phones,” he shared in a 2017 interview withElle.
Despite the challenges, the pair seemed happy during their brief romance.
Charlie Puth (2016)
Selena’s 2016relationshipwith singer Charlie Puth was, in his words, “very short-lived, very small, but very impactful.”
Charlie hinted that Selena’s lingering feelings for Justin Bieber complicated their relationship.
Fans speculated about the tension when Charlie shouted “F**k you, Justin Bieber” during a concert.
The Weeknd (2017)
Selena and The Weeknd, whose real name is Abel Tesfaye, went public in January 2017.
The couple enjoyed a whirlwind romance, appearing together at the Met Gala and traveling internationally.
However, their busy schedules led to their split in October 2017.
Fans speculated that Selena’s rekindledfriendshipwith Justin Bieber played a role in their breakup.
The Weeknd’s EPMy Dear Melancholyfeatured lyrics that seemed to reference their relationship, including an allusion to Selena’s kidney transplant.
“I almost cut a piece of myself for your life,” he sang, hinting at a willingness to donate his organ.
Drew Taggart (2022)
In late 2022, Selena was linked to The Chainsmokers’ Andrew Taggart.
The two were spotted on dates in New York City, but by March 2023, Selena declared herself single, posting on TikTok,“Still out here lookin’ for him lol.”
Zayn Malik (2023)
In March 2023, rumors surfaced that Selena wasdatingformer One Direction member Zayn Malik.
The pair were reportedly seen holding hands and sharing a kiss during a dinner date in New York City.
However, by June 2023, the romance had fizzled out, and Selena unfollowed Zayn on Instagram.
Benny Blanco (2023–Present)
Selena’s journey to finding lasting love seemingly ended with music producer Benny Blanco.
The two confirmed their relationship in December 2023, and just a year later, Benny proposed with a dazzling diamond ring.
Announcing their engagement on Instagram, Selena shared a heartfelt post with the caption, “Forever begins now.”
Despite some criticism from fans about Benny’s pastcommentson pop stars, Selena defended their relationship, calling him“the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”
She emphasized her happiness, saying, “If you can’t accept me at my happiest, then don’t be in my life at all.”
Selena’s first public relationship with the teenage heartthrob; sparked rumors of a feud with Miley Cyrus.
Taylor Lautner
2009
Brief fling while filmingRamona and BeezusandTwilight: New Moon; media scrutiny led to a quick end.
Justin Bieber
2009 – 2014, 2017 – 2018
On-and-off relationship; first official in 2011, split in 2014, briefly reunited in 2017 before ending for good in 2018.
Orlando Bloom
2014
Briefly linked after Selena’s breakup with Justin Bieber; never officially confirmed.
Zedd
2015
Dated after working together on music; split by mid-2015 amid speculation it was a publicity stunt.
Niall Horan
2015
Rumored romance, but Selena denied it, stating they were just friends.
Charlie Puth
2016
Brief rumored relationship after their collaboration on “We Don’t Talk Anymore”; Puth confirmed some underlying tension.
The Weeknd
2017
High-profile relationship lasting almost a year; breakup attributed to distance and schedules.
Drew Taggart
2022
Linked to The Chainsmokers’ member; Selena denied the relationship, confirming her single status.
Zayn Malik
2023
Brief romance sparked by public sightings; highly controversial due to Malik’s ties with Bella Hadid’s family.
Benny Blanco
2023 – Present
Confirmed relationship after months of dating; Selena has shared how he treats her better than anyone.
This table outlines the key relationships in Selena Gomez’s life, highlighting her public romances, from her early days with Nick Jonas to her more recent relationship with Benny Blanco.
Benny Blanco on Being in Love with Selena Gomez
Conclusion
Selena Gomez’s love life has been full of ups and downs, showing how strong and determined she is.
From her famous relationships with Justin Bieber and The Weeknd to short flings and rumors, her journey in love has often been in the spotlight.
Selena Gomez has grown and evolved through each of her relationships, ultimately finding happiness on her terms.
With her engagement to Benny Blanco, fans hope Selena has finally found her happily ever after.
After years of figuring out what she truly wants, Selena is now in a relationship that brings her peace and joy.
It’s a reminder that the best relationships often come after learning more about yourself.
Fans are excited to see Selena happy and wish her all the best in this new chapter of her life.
Last Updated: December 12, 2024
