I know we haven't talked in a long time, I saw your message about your pregnancy and I just wanted to tell you that I'm sorry to hear the news.
I'm very happy for you though that the other baby is doing ok. I'll be thinking of you guys and wishing you good luck through this.
So I guess all I wanted to say was, life does strange things sometimes and even though it closes some doors it opens others that you wouldn't have had if things went your way in the first place. I hope that helps you find a little bit of comfort at least.