As soon as you let your negative thoughts take over your mind, they start affecting outcomes. What I mean is that the outcome is not yet certain, but that the more negatively you think about the situation, the more likely the outcome will be negative. With all those negative thoughts clouding your mind, you leave less room for creative (but often difficult) solutions to the problem. So don't think so negative!!!! You'll be amazed how your entire reality can change if you believe it can change. There are answers out there that most people miss because they've given up before they've even started.