People often ask me, "Is the 'Nabe' (鍋) character in Watanabe officially written with the 'mouth' radical at the bottom (邉), or the 'square' radical (邊)?" But honestly, I don’t care much about it and usually answer, "The common character '辺' (the simplified form) is fine."
By the way, the "correct" character should be the one on my family register, which is "邉" (with the mouth radical). However, on the grave in Tama Cemetery where my grandfather and father are buried, it is written as "邊" (with the square radical). Whether my grandfather, who had the grave made, used this character for some particular reason or simply didn't care, like me, I have no way of knowing now.
Our family moved from Hokkaido to Tokyo during my grandfather’s generation. I had heard that my great-grandfather’s grave was located in Hikone City (our ancestors were originally low-ranking samurai serving the Hikone domain), but I had never had a chance to visit Hikone. Also, my grandmother, who once visited the grave, passed away long ago, and we have no contact with distant relatives from the main family branch.
But for me, having lived over 40 years without ever visiting the graves of my great-grandfather or earlier ancestors felt unsettling, and I wanted to learn more about the origin of the "Nabe" character in Watanabe.
So, when I happened to be on a business trip to Nagoya on a weekend, I decided to take advantage of some free time on Saturday afternoon and visit Hikone to pay my respects to my ancestors.
However, the first challenge was finding the temple. My grandmother often said it was "the family temple of the Ii clan," so I searched online with that clue and found two temples: Ryutan-ji and Seiryo-ji. But when I called both temples, neither had any graves matching my family. It was strange to think that a humble low-ranking samurai like my ancestor would be buried at such a prestigious temple. This must have been some exaggerated story passed down. Hikone reportedly has over 4,000 temples, so without knowing the exact temple, I was at a loss and feared my plan would fail immediately. But just when all seemed lost, a relative aunt dug through some old letters and discovered that a memorial service had been held long ago at a temple called Enjo-ji. I called the temple right away, and they confirmed that my grandfather’s older brother and his children are registered there. At last, the temple was identified.
To get to Hikone, I took the Shinkansen and got off at Maibara Station, then took one more train station. From Nagoya, it’s about an hour trip. It’s not a long trip time-wise, but the round-trip Shinkansen fare plus taxi to the temple cost about 10,000 yen.
Visiting the ancestral land for the first time, the town was quiet and calm if you want to put it kindly, but lifeless and dull if you don’t. (At that time, the popular mascot "Hikonyan" had not yet been created.)
Hikone Castle stands in the center of town, and there are some old streets that feel like stepping back in time, which lends a certain charm. But for someone used to the bustle of Tokyo, it felt eerily quiet.
The Enjo-ji temple, where the grave is located, is said to be the family temple of the mother of the second lord of the Ii family. That explains why my family called it "the family temple of the Ii clan." The main image is an Amida Buddha statue made by the famous sculptor Kaikei. The temple also has a splendid garden and appears to have a long and distinguished history. About 90% of those buried in the graveyard were samurai of the Hikone domain, but since the domain sided with the Tokugawa shogunate, after the Meiji Restoration, they were scattered all over Japan.
Our ancestors (the father of my great-grandfather) also moved to Hokkaido after the Meiji Restoration. The main family branch still lives in Sapporo. One of the descendants now lives in Tokyo and visits the grave at least once a year, so the grave is well maintained and in good condition.
The "Nabe" character on the ancestor’s grave is indeed "邉" (with the mouth radical).
Checking the tombstone records, I found that not only my great-grandfather but also ancestors from about 8 or 9 generations ago are buried there. The earliest ancestor listed had the common name "Jūemon" and died in Kanpō 1 (1741). Since several ancestors used the same common names "Jūemon" or "Shigemon," it seems the family head traditionally took the name "Jūemon." I was deeply moved to be able to finally pay my respects not only to my great-grandfather but also to generations of ancestors.
By the way, although the earliest ancestor in the tombstone is Jūemon who died in 1741, where are the graves of ancestors before him? Are they buried somewhere else, or are they buried here but not recorded on the tombstone? Or is it impossible to know now? Originally, my trip to Hikone was mainly to visit my great-grandfather’s grave, but now I find myself curious about these ancient ancestors as well.